I am 38 yrs married and have two kids, I dont know why but I have the extra drive for sex, my wife does not agree for it. Ihave never been to brothel or any extra martial affair, what could be done? Is there any medicine that would calm down my urge? I have the feeling for at least twice a day continously since last two yrs and hve been going for it, now she has raised her hands up.
2007-03-23 00:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your body is producing too much testosterone? Ask a Dr. But don't take any drugs to decrease your sex drive, what if it goes away altogether? Work with your wife so you two can get more in sync about the frequency of sex. There is nothing wrong with her for not wanting sex al the time, or with you for having a high sex drive Good Luck.
2007-03-23 00:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The medicine that rapists get given. It stops the ability. Your wife is mad though - maybe its HER with the problem? A compromise is in order. Agree you´re gonna do it at least a certain amount in a certain time. The medicine will stop you from getting up though, even when she´s in the mood. Like, I said, compromise - ent marraige all about it??? And perhaps you´d think sex on a timetable is boring - you could try different things to make it UN-boring...look into some ideas! Experiment! You never know, it might calm you down a bit - or wake her up a bit!
2007-03-23 00:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have different drives.
I don't know that you'd want to take medicine to calm down. That might have side effects you don't want to mess with.
Don't do the brothel or affair if you dont want to hurt your wife. Maybe you can reach some happy medium with her.
You can always take care of matters yourself. There's a reason God put that stuff within arm's reach.
2007-03-23 00:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she 'raising her hands' up? i wouldn't take any pills to calm down a natural function of the body, and the urge to have sex 2x a day isn't outrageous.
maybe your wife would benefit from a bit of counseling; sounds like there's a block there somewhere.
sometimes the idea of getting pregnant again worries women with an already huge workload.....
good luck.
2007-03-23 00:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my frined women like that need to be trained so save up for once a day.. dont rush do an unsually long session say bout 3 hours or so... and see if she loves it.. then increase it to 2 times
2007-03-23 00:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go kevin spacey style in american beauty. whack it all the time before nailing the hot neighbor girl.
i mean whack it in bed when your wife is trying to sleep even. that's funny as hell
2007-03-23 02:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a medicine, I wish I knew!
I was in EXACTLY your situation, couldn't control my urge, and went out!
Today I am all alone!--no wife, no son, no daughter....all gone!
Don't go out! Please!!
2007-03-23 00:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by thegentle Indian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start attending meditation classes everything will calm down
2007-03-23 00:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by nakshitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do push ups, that will calm you down.
2007-03-23 00:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite "Mrs. Palm and her 5 daughters" !!!!
2007-03-23 00:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by poepies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋