I've been working with this girl for about 6 weeks. She is 23 and I'm 20. She is beautiful! Everyday I drive to work I say to myself I'm going to ask her to be my girl today, but when I get around her I freeze up. I start talking about the weirdest stuff, like what time she gets off and what is she doing this weekend. She is kinda intimidating because she is 23 and I'm 20. She seems interested in me. I make her laugh and she told me over the phone that she likes me alot. I guess another reason I freeze up is because she is always around her co-workers. We never get one on one time. And one day she told my best friend that I was Scary! I'm not shy nor scary, she's just so beautiful, I never had anyone like her before! Please help me out? What would you say? What should I say? How should I come at her?
2007-03-23 00:33:22 · 11 answers · asked by sqadup661 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww i was at the other end of the same situation , he asked if he could come over and watch this movie with me that i liked and when he was leaving he told me that he liked me and how he'd let this other girl slip away that he liked and that he didn't want the same thing to happen with me and then he asked if he could be my boyfriend <3 sweet , no ?
2007-03-23 00:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by sweet sammi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi this is angel, first of all u dont just come after a girl, and second never ask a girl 2 b ur girlfriend because thats 2 childish.. Now this might help, dont keep going up 2 her all the time may b shes taking that as pressure, we woman r somewhat like u guys we dont like 2 b pressured. so the next time u see her try just saying hi how r u today? im sorry 2 bother u but i was wondering if u might like 2 have dinner with me. please what ever u do dont come on 2 strong or ull blow it k. just relaxe and take ur time , dont try and rush her cause that wont work. goodluck,
2007-03-23 07:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
copy this on a piece of paper and recite it as it is
Can I talk to you for a minute in private. I jus wanted to tell you that i really like you a lot and wanna get to know you on personal level. Can we go out together for lunch at 1300 on saturday. .......................................
at lunch
Like I was saying I like you a lot and was hopping you be my girl and gimme a chance to treat you right and make you complete. You are the kinda girl I need and i hope you fell the same.
after lunch
Can i give you a hug and a kiss.
EASY as that. Any more questions. your best friend probabbly lied to you so he can have her for himself
2007-03-23 07:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Stargate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k dont go freakin a gril out by sayin freaky sh*t like talkin bout star wars and stuff....u really have to play it cool b4 u ask her out u av 2 b prepared 4 rejection, but if u really want to take my advice. wait a bit more and start gettin some one on one time..plan it she leaves work your "coincidentally" outside when she finishes, make a joke and make her laugh...dont go gettin all flabbergasted on your words just casually say would u like 2 go for a coffee/drink/movie sometime..if she says no den she aint worth it if she says ya...well den dare u go!! just play it calm and def b yourself best quality a girl could askk 4 in a boyfriend!!
Good luck!!x
2007-03-23 07:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Irishlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember just be your self . and i will tell you a little secret this one guy asked me out by asking me to go and see his project in chemistry in college . i thought it was a little strange at first and when i saw it , it was so beautiful because there was no1 els around just us and it was all about me . the way my eyes glistened n all that jazz. that doesn't mean you should go and do that at all just be your self casually walk up to her and compliment her say in her hair is nice Even explain that her eyes sparkle even when there is no sun (girls love it) just remember that you need to have courage to do what you want.
2007-03-23 07:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make her feel that u are a special person, let her know that u r mature enough and start speaking to another gal in her presence, let her feel jealous, right now she is getting all the attention , that is y she speaks that way , many beautiful women are that way
2007-03-23 07:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by nakshitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she'd like to go out sometime after work then you'll know when the time is right be open about it say i really like you because......will you go out with me if she says no, don't get upset in front of her say OK I'll see you at work i hope this doesn't ruin our friendship.
2007-03-23 07:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out to dinner, then find out if she is in a relationship, then go from there
2007-03-23 07:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by cheezeboe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a drink and stir it with your stick.
2007-03-23 07:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Edub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask her and see if she go out with you OK
2007-03-23 07:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋