2007-03-23 00:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by Tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No because you can always get skinny... you just have to actually get up off your fat as.s and do somthing about it.
2007-03-23 00:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No I don't believe so
It is your own mind suggesting this
because you are not happy with your weight.
you are uncomfortable with yourself
and people can sense the insecurity
which in turn kind of is a drag to hang with
someone insecure and self concious.
if you lost a few pounds you would be
a happier person, i only say this because
you would not have asked this question if
you weren't hurting inside because of your weight.
were you once thin and see the difference in how people treat you since you put on the extra pounds. i don't quite understand why people are so shallow, but the world is a strange place sometimes. I have friends whom are quite large that are the life of the party because they are comfortable in their skin, or maybe because that is how they stay in the crowd by being the comedian. Either way you yourself is the only one that can change this, it is very difficult just stay busy and conscious of your food intake do not eat after 5:oo p.m and no sodas that is a easy way to start.just watch you will begin to slowly drop a few pounds then you may be motivated to do more dieting without saying forget it. Don't do it stay on the diet for a full month then you will be happier when you see you are actually losing. it will be hard dear but you can do it if you remember nothing tastes as good as thin feels. i know first hand i went from being very attractive killer body that stopped the room when i walked by to a major life threatening accident that i am slowly recovering from. however i gained about 65 pounds and have totally noticed how different people treat me even women. it is strange and sad for me but if i give up. then what do i do just sit in this chair, i think not i am working with therapy that is so painful i collapse and cry but i remember how good it felt when i was free of thoughts in my head of what people were saying about me other than all good. in other words i had mega self esteem and you will too when you start noticing the pounds melting off your body. good luck i know you will lose it and feel fabulous, and remember what the one thing is people all over the world are searching for universally.HAPPINESS :)
2007-03-23 07:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it does show you what people really are like. I don't know what's wrong with fat people at all, why some people don't like them but it must be a matter of acceptance and open-mindedness. Besides, it's just the physical appearance and what matters is really in the inside. Being fat doesn't mean you'll be lonely for your entire life because there'll always be someone there somewhere...
2007-03-23 07:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, i have plenty of so called chubby and maybe obese buddies that have met lovely guys and have a great circle of friends. Maybe it's cliche, but we love them because they have beautiful insides and I guess you don't even notice the rest, or at least little importance is placed on it. If people place importance on it then perhaps loneliness would be a better option.
2007-03-23 07:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sakuradoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. ya just gotta find the right person.. hell I'm rather thin and really cute particularly for my age LOL.. but i'm alone (by choice) I just dont trust chicks other than casual dating once in a blue moon...( I have my reasons trust me)
fat thin.. eh.. makes no real difference.. we all have our crosses to bear.. you'll do Ok...
and I'll tell ya a secret.. being alone isnt so bad actually (in fact its pretty damn good LOL)
2007-03-23 07:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helo people downt fell left out because of all the Anorexics out there there is nothing wrong with fat people and you will not be lonly you will find someone when the time is wright.
2007-03-23 07:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alexa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. You do accept others for who and what they are, warts and all, don't you? Good - 'cause that's the key. Treat others with dignity and respect, as if they're worth something, and you're far more likely to be treated the same way. It's true - what goes around, comes around.
2007-03-23 07:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, why would you think that? Being fat doesn't or shouldn't have anything to do with being lonely.
2007-03-23 07:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absultly not. I know the fattest people and they are in love. You just need to find some one that loves you for everything about you. Then you will be happy.
2007-03-23 07:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it means you'll find someone who will truly love you, not because of what you look like to every one else
2007-03-23 08:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by luc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! the bigger the better baby! I want a dream boat not a dingy!
2007-03-23 09:44:12 · answer #11 · answered by sistermarybella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋