i met this girl about 7 months ago, she is canadian but her company sent her to work here in france for a year, anyway when i met her she told me that she has a boyfriend back in canada and they've been together for almost 5 years.
i didn't show her any interest and we started running into each other because we are in the same circle of friends and then we became very close and there was chemistry and so we agreed to become "Friends with benefits" but then we became even closer! and there was so much passion, and then she says she wants to be exclusive and we started dating for a while
at this point she tells me that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend even before we met.
so now she went back to canada to break up with her 5 years boyfriend and she'll be back in a couple of weeks
here's my dilemma:
did she hook up with me just to make it easier for her to break up with her 5 years or was she really interested???? and when she comes back should i give her some space or date her?
2007-03-22 23:58:09 · 7 answers · asked by Slash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had to go back there because they were living together and she needed to take her stuff out of his place, and you can't end a 5 years relationship with a phone call!!!
but yes, she confessed to have had break-up sex with him!!! and she told me that i can sleep with other girls while she is away!!! God, i feel like a sucker!!!
2007-03-22 23:58:24 · update #1
Depend on how you feel about her and her past
2007-03-23 00:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is sure of what she wants. I would be very careful. If she was so ready to break up with him, she would not have had sex with him. And she would not have had sex with you while she was with him. She is a very confused lady and I would give her some room. She has already shown she is unable to be exclusive in a relationship. I would not feel foolish, this has more to do with who she is and her lack of self control, self-esteem, etc. Good luck and God bless****
2007-03-23 00:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there.1st of course 5years isn't good thing so it would better 4 both of ya to have a little of space to be able to think of your relation and to mak her to decide if she wants you or she just want to fill the empty that had just happened.you-your self-must put in yo'mind that for now she is just a friend just till you be sure from yours and heres feelings.i hope you take this advice cause if you don't i guess the result- you- won't like it.by the way you should tell her plz let us just 4now be friends untill we both check the status of what we feel inside.i hope i've made agood use 4ya
m'regards,
Miss.shiny
2007-03-23 00:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Miss.shiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do but see how it folds out id wait and see after the boyfriend thing is outer the way and see what happens just good luck really
2007-03-23 00:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ray T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad for you! Usually relationships that have developed such as yours did don't work out. It sounds like she wanted out of her other relationship, but now just wants to be free to come and go as she pleases.
2007-03-23 00:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by rocketgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sucker. You are just her boy toy. She is so bad that she makes men who cheat look good.
2007-03-23 01:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like a sucker?? Hmm whay is that?? You sucker you HA!.. you have the right feeling.. RUN!
2007-03-23 00:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋