Question about porn?

Question

Is it too much for my boyfriend to watch porn everyday? And the girls in the videos he watched, my face is way better looking, and my body looks like some of their's, and even better then somes. I have a behind just like these girls. Why is he looking everyday if I look like that too? Even better in some cases.

Answer 1

He may have an addiction...

Answer 2

Porn movies show attractive women in hot sex action with one or more guys. And looking at you, he doesn't see any such action. He only sees you.

The kind of sex you see in porn movies today is often wild, spectacular, and unusual. And many guys like to watch these films to break the monotony of normal every day sex-life.

It's the same reason why many people never get tired of watching adventure and action type of movies.

Some people like to escape into a fantasy world once in a while.

Answer 3

No, it's not too much for your boyfriend to watch porn daily. Many men (and a sizeable number fo women, as well) do just the same thing. The only problem is if he's shunning his life in order to spend time with porn- not socializing or doing necessary tasks- that may be a sign that it's an addiction. Otherwise, it's just a healthy, robust sexual hobby.

As to why he's looking everyday if you look better than these women, here's my answer:

Porn is an interesting, and very misunderstood, thing. For those who enjoy it, we understand what other people get out of it and there's no real problem so long as it's not an addiction. For those who don't see the appeal in porn, it can be immensely hard to convince them that the myths out there aren't true.

People who watch porn are not using it as a substitute for sex, believe me. Porn/masturbation and sex are two completely different things. People assume the same things you do- that he's a horndog who constantly wants more sex, that you aren't attractive, don't fulfill his fantasies, etc., etc., but it's just not true.

The time that one spends alone with porn is VERY different from that spent with another person. It's interesting that in every other aspect of life, we expect an equal balance of time with people and alone time; we recognize them to be necessary to happiness. Yet in sex, we assume that once you have a partner, you have no "need" for solitary sex. That's bull. Sex with a partner is beautiful, amazing, but there are different goals in mind than when you're alone- with someone, you're working to please them, your mind is in a different place.

I know people who have amazing sex lives with gorgeous people- sex is always available and desired. And still these people like to occasionally sneak off and have some moments to themselves, not because of any lack of anything on the part of their partner, but rather because that solo masturbatory time is on a different level from sex with another person.

Not to mention that porn is part of fantasy. Just because someone fantasizes doesn't mean that they want the fantasy to come true- it's just a way of adding spice and variety to their lives. And generally, spice and variety come in the flavor of other people, other situations, other places- generally, whatever is exotic and foreign to us and not what we always have. For most men, that's other women and porn stars, and it's not about their attractiveness, so much as it's about the fact that they aren't you- and thereby they have that naughty fantastical element. Again, it doesn't mean he doesn't want you or love you, or that he wants to cheat- it just means he's mixing things up in his fantasy life with a larger cast of characters.

Hope that helps explain things.

Answer 4

he is either an addict or he struggles to get horny and porn helps him with it

This is not normal for a guy to watch porn while he has a gf who is willing to give it all to him