im 18 and i met up with my ex because he said that he really needed to 'talk' about something. i stupidly gave in and it turned out that his idea of talking was trying to get back with me and he even tried to take advantage of me. as i went to leave me pushed me and i fell, which resulted in me spraining my foot. i had to take 2 weeks off work but i also just told everyone that i fell at home because i was clumsy. some people didnt believe me but i dont know if i should tell the truth. is this even something to be concerned about or am i making a big deal over nothing?
2007-03-22 22:22:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after it happend he told me it was my fault and that if i tell anyone he will tell them that im a lying and i did it to myself :s
2007-03-22 22:29:41 · update #1
Well ,,,, Live and learn ,,,, As for telling some one ,,,, There's not much hope there unless you had eye witnesses ,,,, It would be your word against his and you said you've already told people that you fell at home so the burden of proof is on you ,,,, There's no doubt the guy is a jerk and maybe you go off lucky ,,,, What I would do now is just stay away from him ,,,, But if he pursues you then be prepared to turn him in as a stalker and don't hesitate and also get an order of protection against him ,,,, He sounds like he's off balance and probably capable of doing serious harm ,,,, He also sounds unpredictable and dangerous ,,,, Keep your guard up where he's concerned ,,,, You never know what he might do and when ,,,, I just hope you don't live alone ,,,,
2007-03-22 23:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were injured till u couldn't go to work for 2 weeks, i assume the injury was serious. If you felt threaten, then better tell someone you could trust coz' at least they know what is happening can help/protect you
If he troubles you or disturb or trying to hurt you again, make a police report
my warning is, don't entertain him again or u may be giving him false hope or chance to hurt you.
2007-03-23 05:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on you! Do you think it's serious enough to come out and tell the truth? Do you think it was an accident? It all depens on you. I honestly wouldn't tell because I wouldn't think it was that serious and no one needs to know my personal business like that. I would just keep in mind that he can become violent and I wouldn't put myself back in that position if I were you. Take care!
2007-03-23 05:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh? hello
is that eve a Q of course u got to tell the true///what r u thinking?
someone hurst u and u just dont say a word?
I even call my mom and tell her
and my mom live in central america
U got to respect ur self otherwise no one will rspect u to keep some thing like that is wrong. I tell everyone whe my gf gives me a kiss and wen she is mad at me and tell me bad words
u know...that is the reason we have friends
2007-03-23 05:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your father, brothers, etc. Call the police. Sounds like he's a potential stalker / rapist. Don't call him back unless directed to by the police.
It could get very bad if you are not careful, he definitely sounds like the obsessive type.
2007-03-23 05:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well it sounds like he is a violent person and if you don't tell the truth he could do this to other people and maybe even worse i think you should tell!!! DON'T be afraid the police will protect you!
2007-03-23 05:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your pissed at him you MIGHT be able to get him arrested for assault. if you arent pissed about it its not a huge deal. just dont talk to him, he sounds like a perverted loser.
2007-03-23 05:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Silent Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u tell someone, it will help u later on to get rid of him.
2007-03-23 05:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AM SURE HE DIDN'T MEAN TO HURT YOU. YOU HAVEN'T SAID WHAT HAPPENED AFTER THIS OCCURED. I WOULD LET IT GO AND GET ON WITH IT.
2007-03-23 05:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, just tell the one u trusted...... :)u'll feel better
2007-03-23 05:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋