i'm confused. I love this guy alot. We were very close. But he's entering Air Force soon. He hasn't completed his education and has insufficient funds to complete his studies. I wanted a guy who has completed his studies. The guy i love told me that he would take a longer time to complete his studies. So i broke off with this guy cause most people at 25 would rather work than study. Am i doing the right thing or am i not understanding? I'm really confused cause i really want to be with him.. HElp!!!
2007-03-22 22:09:31 · 8 answers · asked by priincessgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u dont love a person for his educated or not!!! either u love him or u don't and breaking up on this grounds is wrong!! i do agree that job is important but if hez entering air force he would soon end up earnin....doesnt the guy and his love for u matters to u or is it only the degree u want??? what if u find a guy with a big degree and not a heart like his , and not even love u the same way he did??? what r u gonna do??? regret it??? some times u do have to overlook things for the one's u love...and givin up somebody for a degree is not worth it!!!
2007-03-22 22:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly knows what you want then don't be with someone that doesn't fit into your main criteria of a bf. If you go with this relationship, be prepared you will quarrel with him alot while *waiting* for him to finish his study. If in the end both of you break up, You will probably be just wasting each other time and hurting him
2007-03-22 22:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a terrible thing to do. Some people take longer to finish schooling or they wait until they are mature enough to know what they want to do with their life so that they don't waste time, money and energy on studying for the wrong career! If you broke up with him because he is taking his time with school then you don't deserve to have a boyfriend!!!
GRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 22:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had me a little confused! But, if you love him it shouldn't matter what his finacial state is. You should try to help him as much as you can. And when you feel you've done all you can then leave it all up to him. I really don't know what to say because that's a hard situation to be in.
2007-03-22 22:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, a woman wait for her man.. that is if she REALLY loves the guy.. Looks like you are impatient and don't want to wait.. which says, you REALLY don't love this guy. YOU think and make your decision...
No matter what we tell you, you may not agree
2007-03-22 22:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were my sun...You were my earth...But you didn't know all the ways I loved you...You told me you loved me...Why did you leave me, all alone???...hmmm...does love need a status???...maybe u shud haf known abt his status and his education before u even started to like him...all the best anywy...god bless :)
2007-03-22 23:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Boy_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him do his thing, then see what happens with your relationship if you really love him you will at least let him do what he wants? and stick it out for a little while see how things go!
2007-03-22 22:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make this choice. your the one who will have to live with the outcome.
2007-03-22 22:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋