Rejected... AGAIN?

Question

im 13 years old and all i ever do is get rejected. evry time i ask a guy out, i get rejected. It's getting very annoying because I'm good looking (and I know it!) so i dont get how to ask a guy out so he'll say YES. o and pllease dont tell me "move on" or "you r 2 young 2 hav a boyfrend" bcuz thats all sh** and if u were gonna say this dont answer this q. u can tell im pretty pissed, huh?

Answer 1

Well . . . don't feel bad. I'm almost 22, and I've never known anything but rejection (except from this one girl I really did not want to date . . . but that's a long story). Men get rejected about 90% of the time, so don't think you're the only one hurting. I know you don't want to hear it, but I think the reason you're probably having so much trouble asking a guy out is because you're young and can't go out places to hang out. If you were older, you could ask guys if they want to go grab a bite to eat or go to the park or something . . . but when you're young you can't do much more than ask one if they want to be your boyfriend. Also, it is possible that you're being too sudden. Have a couple of conversations with the guys before you ask them out, to see if they kinda like you (in other words, they can talk to you easily and they enjoy talking to you). Also, don't tell your friends too much about your difficulties in romance . . . it makes you seem pitiful and desperate and it can get around. Take it from experience. It's worse for guys, but it's definitely too bad for you to overlook too. Good luck!

Answer 2

I'm almost 23 and have been rejected many times. It's a part of life. The right one will come along when you least expect it. I could be wrong, but by looking at what you wrote that is probably why guys are rejecting you. Men generally don't like cocky women. They like women with confidence, yes, but not cocky. First, find a balance with being confident and it will happen. There is a difference between those who know they are goodlooking and flaunt it and others who are comfortable with their looks and personality. I think its safe to say that you probably aren't as confident as you seem. Work on yourself because you are only 13 and have plenty of time. If you don't do that, then you are going to have a hard time in the dating world. I feel sorry for any man that would settle with someone like you.

Answer 3

Okay little sister - here's the deal.
First - don't be so egotistical - guys hate girls who "know" they're good looking - they tend to be beyaches!
Second - Calm down! Typically, the guy does the asking out - when the girl does it, it freaks the guys out - she comes off as being too aggressive! It's okay to be strong, independent, and going after what you want - just learn how to make the guy interested in you and then back off a little, let him make the next move!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!

Answer 4

It sounds to me that you are looking more for acceptance than for a boyfriend. If you are looking for a relationship, then you need to be patient. Just because you are good looking does not entitle you to date any guy, whenever you want. Try establishing a relationship with a guy first, at thirteen some guys can get scared sh**less if you are just walking up to them and asking them out. It just doesn't always work out that way.

Answer 5

well, u re too clingy. a real lady shoudl wait till a guy asks her out. if he never asks she never even shows that she liked him on the first place. u re not acting like a lady - u re acting clingy and vulgar. also if u think u re attractive it doesn't mean a guy u re asking out has the same opinion about the level of your beauty. so just stay calm for some period and see what happens

Answer 6

Maybe because your bossy and egotistical, otherwise known as a spoiled brat. Typically that is unattractive to most boys.
-NmD!

Answer 7

o hunny the rite 1 will coom along soon - u have 2 have hart (<3) that is a hart <----