For example, if they like chubby girls, etc..
2007-03-22 19:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All guys have some insecurities, unless they've been very fortunate in life to:
a) Be born with lots of natural attractiveness, or
b) Been spared a lot of failure in the area of romance, especially when they're young and just starting to date.
Now, the answer to your question depends on what you mean by skinny. If you mean at a healthy weight (the way the word is used by most fat people) then the guy usually has that much less insecurity than other guys. If you mean underweight or bony, then the answer to your question is ABSOLUTELY. I used to be really skinny, and I was constantly bothered with my body image. I'm still bothered, but I'm no longer that skinny (I'm trying to get really muscular, but it's hard work and I don't have as much time as I need). Good night!
2007-03-22 19:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL: yes, i use to compare my ex to a pole!!
After a while when he gained some weight, which suited his body frame, he couldn't wait to see what i had to say (&this was after we broke up)....
i guess he was insecure about it in the beginning......
i complimented him ofcause.
Dont go on &on about how skinny they are, u may joke now &again but not persistantly.
how would u like it if u where chubby &they went on &on about that?? same principle.
2007-03-23 02:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we skinny guys do have insecurities, as we are considered less than manly because we don't look like we can swing our fists really hard. Women tend to overlook us too, which doubles our insecurity
2007-03-23 02:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
? What does liking chubby girls have to do with insecurities??
Everyone has insecurities to varying degrees
2007-03-23 02:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yupz.. i tink so..
there's tis guy who liked me.. we were kinda close.. den i sorta sensed dat he haf feelings for me.. bt i mentioned to him b4 that i like my bf to have some built.. cos i dun belong to the skinny kind.. etc..
ever since then.. he sorta kept his distance from me.. we do meet up once in a while.. bt nt as close as we used to be.. dats kind of sad..
whenever we meet up, he kinda am quite concerned abt how he looks.. comparing himself with our common frens, saying he's not as gd as "you-know-who".. etc..
so, there u goes.. bt he's trying to gain more weight.. n looks forward to the day when he'll realli look more healthy.. i tink the mindset realli matters a lot.. u gotta be more positive..
2007-03-23 03:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what size you are, everyone has insecurites. There will always be something about yourself that you are not comfortable with or you think someone else is judging you by.
2007-03-23 02:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by mg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have some as does everyone really, its how we deal with them thats the key.
-NmD!
2007-03-23 02:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I think they have frustrations bout the way they look LOL
2007-03-23 02:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-03-23 02:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋