How do i find Mr. right?

Question

I''m in my 20's and have been out on several dates, but the guys aren't my type. Where can i go or what should i do to find him?

Answer 1

be yourself, explore who you are, and make sure you know what you want in life and in a mate before you seriously look for a "mythical One" that would do all that for you.

when you are your own person and know what and who you want, it will be far easier to find them

Answer 2

At your age, its hardly possible you in fact will find Mr Right. First, you're probably looking in bars,'clubs', parties, places like that. The types of places that kids in their 20's go are not condusive to finding the right guy. Guys in their 20's are more likely to wear their baseball hat sideways, drink beer with their friends, spend all extra time and money on making their car look good (to other 20 year olds), and discovering 'strippers' for the first time now that they can legally drink. Secondly, girls at your age have very different standards as to what makes a guy the 'right' guy. They tend to choose guys that are jerks, but then later complian that guys are jerks; never realizing that it was THEY who choose him!! I understand this leaves you somewhat conflicted because as a female, you're slightly more mature than the guys your age. I'm afraid you'll just have to wait until the boys catch up to you, or choose an older guy, although, you'd pick the wrong one of those too!! Im not trying to be condescending, it's not your fault. But until your almost 27, the human brain hasn't completed 'neural pruning' where it sheds the slower neural connections especially in the frontal lobes, and strengthens those left to remain active. Without this area of the brain fully formed, functional, and aware, humans make poor decisions, have greater risk taking, dulled inhibitions and lack the ability to accurately perceive future consequences. Add these all up and it's the worst time to be looking for a mature stable comitted healthy relationship. Good Luck.

Answer 3

I always wondered the same thing! I was SO picky and never dated anyone... I remember two days after I turned 19 I told my mom I was never goin to get married cuz I couldnt find a guy and I didnt wanna date anyone so I was giving up... I met my bf the next day at work.. and we have been together a year in May. So just give it time.. he'll come along when you least expect it

Answer 4

First of all, ask yourself what are the main qualities you are looking for in a man. Once you know what you want, go to places where you can find such men e.g. if you prefer more intellecture men, you might want to try the library or bookstore. If you prefer sporty, hunky men, go get a membership at a nearby gym.

Answer 5

You will find the best men at church functions and Mr. Right is probably there but you have not noticed him yet. Concentrate on your friendships as the best marriages are when best friends marry.

Answer 6

I have no idea, but I am have found the same thing... for the person that said church functions. Yes this is most likely true... Actually I know it is my cousin meet his wife in a church but... if you don't go to church.. that wouldn't work. However it is an idea!!

Answer 7

Stop looking, when the time is right God will put your Mr. Right in your path.
-NmD!

Answer 8

Stop looking. He will stalk you down because he will be obsessed with you. And you will think he's boring, but you should still tell him you will marry him.

Answer 9

there is no particular place to go. just keep on dating, eventually you will find the righ one.

Answer 10

Are in such hurry to find one? if so,i wud advice u to recheck wat men want in gals and choose you are category, then c if he's your Mr.right then go on after ur luv gal.