I have been with my man for 5 years.. well, he hadn't mentioned marriage a lot, due to our situations.. well recently he's been bringing it up a lot, sounding excited. However... he has been hiding text messages from me. He won't let me see any of them. He says they are from his best friend.. who is helping him out with something, having to do with me, and it being a surprise. He says I will really like it and if he told me, or let me see the messages.. it would ruin it. He even called his best friend and they talked about it in front of me, saying they are texting each other about the surprise. How do I know they aren't both in on it, and its another woman?
I asked him if it was another girl, and he said "why would I text other girls right in front of you?" things like that.
He has never cheated, and I trust him.. but this sounds weird. Is it another girl, or is it about getting engaged?
2007-03-22 19:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by anna t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exaclty..why would he text another girl in fornt of you ?
Men usually discuss anything they feel like .
And you may not like whats in the message , as they are best friends and bound to voice their opinions which you may not accept .
2007-03-22 19:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the talk about marriage sounds like he might have something up his sleeve regarding a proposal. Recently tho, an ex bf had been texting msgs in front of me and seeming secretive abt them-altho i nvr asked, it seemed like it was another girl. I only would know its another girl b/c it would pop up on the screen and he'd reply back and forth and would immediately delete them all in front of me. That ex WAS alwys texting his ex gf and some classmate right in front of me-i NEVER asked him who or what it was about ever-but for my situation-we nvr discussed marriage-so i had every right to be suspicious. My ex nvr to my knowledge cheated on me, and i did trust him too-but for how shady he was, i didnt trust him. this DOES sound weird,...but im always a skeptic. you might wanna go and ask ur guys bes bud if they were talking on that particular day to test it out...
2007-03-23 02:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, maybe he is just trying to surprise you. If he has never cheated then don't start thinking that now. If you do you will end up always being unsure. Be secure and positive in your relationship
2007-03-23 02:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just use protection so you don't get an STD, and wait it out. If he doesn't ask you to marry him in a month, then he's probably cheating. But you trust him, so it's no doubt fine. Just be sensible.
2007-03-23 02:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anna, hon, I do believe he's given you all the clues you need! I really don't think there's someone else! It's YOU he looooves! Here's an early congrats on your engagement xx
2007-03-23 02:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you stressing? He's never cheated. You trust him. (thats questionable.) He's trying to surprise you and your ruining it!
2007-03-23 02:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by charbarski 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait okay? maybe its about how he will propose to u.
dont be too suspicious, if u truely trust him, ull never think of him cheating on u.
2007-03-23 02:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u obviously dont trust him. i dont know he could be lying to you. i guess u just have to wait and see if a ring materializes. if not. then i guess ur suspicions are right
2007-03-23 02:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you don't trust him
2007-03-23 02:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋