I have a philosophy that if you love somebody you should not propose, because if it is a true love you will get your love one day without proposing. AND if proposing someone brings you love then your love is not strong enough. I am following my philosophy for some 5 years but still failing.
2007-03-22 19:41:47 · 22 answers · asked by GAURAV S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try my philosophy. It says, if you love someone prepare yourself to stand by the person without disturbing your values. Prapare to be committed. Once you think you can, go and express your feeling. Even if it's true love, the other person needs to realize that you love him/her. There's nothing like telepathy out here.
All the best
:-)
2007-03-23 13:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious your philosophy doesn't work out well for you. try changing some part of it... you should propose if you really believe that what you both feel is true love that could last a lifetime. it's true that you will get your love one day but how will you let it stay if you won't tell the girl to marry you by proposing to her.... see the difference next time. you've already tried not proposing and you failed, it's about time you try to propose, but first be sure with your feelings
2007-03-23 02:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by tangerine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been following ur philosophy for the last 5 years and without any result.
Follow my philosophy for 1 year you would certainly get the desired result. "PROPOSE YOUR LOVE"
2007-03-23 02:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Quizzing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By proposing do you mean marriage. So... are you one day just gonna wake up and be married? It doesn't work like that. Even if it is a spur of the moment thing someone still has to say hey lets get married. That is a proposal.
2007-03-23 02:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by agbridal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...... u know normally its a guys thing to do the proposing except for some exceptional cases where the girls actually do it. I don't see any harm if u propose to a girl (if u're indeed a guy). It's the norm. Just imagine that the ladies u meet also have the same philosophy like you do, then tu toh geya kaam se. With u waiting for them and they waiting for u to propose to each other......... samjha kuch. Agar tum aise hi wait karte rahe, koi ladki nai milegi. It's bout time u change your philosophy. But aisa mat karna ke har ek ladki dekhi toh ushe propose kiya. Get to know someone and if u luv her and intend to marry her, pls pop the question.
2007-03-23 04:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "philosophy" is unsophisticated. How old are you? My honest guesse would be 19y/o.
You need to understand that mairage means different things to different people. Whether you "get your love" w/ or w/o proposing should be irrelevent since a proposal should follow being in love not precede it.
2007-03-23 02:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by H M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont agree with your philosophy. Just look around you look in to the nature if animals also want to have a partner they by themselves have to approach . God has given us brain so use it find the creative way to propose someone special for you. Otherwise you will always be last in the Que.
2007-03-23 02:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by ash a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you love somebody its very imp that you express it in some way or the other. not mandatory that you propose but not expressing it will always lead you to failure. though your philosophy is correct you need to think about the other persons expectations too. may be your philosophy is not excepted by the other and wants you to propose. In love relations we always need to think about the other and then our philosophy
2007-03-23 02:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by radhika I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
C the philosophy which u believe is true. But atleast u need to initiate. U have to propose. Then if he betrays or is not happy then u should think that if u love him/her he will come back to u.
Plz be bold enough to initiate.
2007-03-23 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Deepti K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally disagree with your philosophy, since it is absurd and this is the reason for your failure. If one loves someone, it is high time he/she is proposed. There is of course, a chance, for refusal, but this should not be taken in the negative spirit.
2007-03-23 03:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋