Even when I yelled "This is all about you!"
He stood there straight faced and even laughed as we got mad at each other.
My feelings are super hurt at him and I fear this girl now!
Why would he say nothing and then laugh?
He was doing me a favor at the time and even tried to finish helping me. But then somebody stepped in and told him to go on. They helped me the rest of the way.
2007-03-22 19:07:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably just didnt want to get in the middle
or he probably doesnt really care what happens
or he likes seeing girl fights (weird thing about some immature men)
Or he couldve just thought the whole fight was a waste of time and it shoudnt be happening so why make it worse by stepping in the middle of it.
you should ask him what was going on with him.
2007-03-22 19:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would not be fighting over a man that is not gonna fight for himself. You need to determine if you were possibly already offended by him, and or threatened by this girl and you used this opportunity to try and degrade her in front of him and now your feelings are hurt. You see we tend to want to degrade those that we are intimidated by to make us feel bettter about ourselves. If this boy has made a decision to be with or help you, then you shouldn't have to fight over it. you can simply ingnore the confrontation and gloat as he continues on with you. Plus you should realize that men do not react the same way as men by any means. He is not gonna get out of control, usually men do not enjoy girl drama. If you were really doing it for him, you should have done what would have suited him which means waiting and asking him what he wants you to do...odds are, he will say nothing; hence that is what you should do. I think your looking for a whole lot more than men (as a whole) have to offer. If you have gone as far as to post these questions, it seems as if you already know that that there was a flaw in your behavior, otherwise you would not be asking for confirmation from others who were not witness to the facts. I bet all the boy is thinking is "damn, these girls are nuts...I hope they fight and a tit flops out" or something as equally as perverted. I believe that your perception of the events and theirs may be off or partial to the story teller. Like when you say he stood there with a straight face and even laughed as you got madder- which is it? He stood there with a straight face or he laughed? I am not "siding against you" I am simply asking you to open your mind a little and ask yourself what you could have done to help prevent the situation in the first place. Next ask yourself if he asked for you to come to his defense or fight for him, therefore, does he owe you anything ...even support, then ask yourself if it would be best to avoid this kind of drama in the future.
2007-03-23 02:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Charissa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... first of all hun let me tell how sorry I am you had to encounter such a jerk and secondly don't be hurt doll... b/c now you can see him for the true asshole he is !!! You're better off without him and I can tell you that just by reading how you stood up for yoursself, voiced your opinion and argued over someone you claim to just be a crush !!! See how brave you are... don't let your crush crush you, keep being a strong woman !!! Good Luck !!!
2007-03-23 02:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't know how to react, so he laughed. I do the same thing and people are always getting mad at me for it. Cut him some slack, he is stuck in the middle of this. He doesn't know what to do about it. Sticky situation, her being the boss person and all. Hope you get things running a bit more smoothly here, I feel ya.
Good luck,
Jon
2007-03-23 02:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he's your "crush". Well you don't own him, you're probably not even dating him, why should HE do anything? You and this other girl got into a fight over him...of course he's going to laugh...If I were there I'd be laughing too. Every guy likes a good cat fight, and when it's about him...hey his ego is set for life! That's why he laughed.
2007-03-23 02:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is enjoying all the attention. He has two women both competing for his affections. Lose that loser....there is nothing attractive about a man that would enjoy seeing someone with hurt feelings or such a situation. He is not worth your time or effort. There is not room for both of you and his massive ego in the relationship.
2007-03-23 02:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by kolacat17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boot the dude and let her have him. Sounds like he's lacking a backbone. Move on, you can do better. Guys who are playing both fields tend to laugh when they get cornered and don't know what to do. You can find plenty of other folks to help you out when needed. Like a real freind
2007-03-23 02:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Not Lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't step in and defend you because he doesn't care. Hello! He laughed at you!
Here's the thing: Just because someone is your crush doesn't actually mean they feel the same about you. I know, nobody has ever explained that to you, but there it is.
2007-03-23 02:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this he might have done the right thing. Another thing is, it might have been the first time in his live that two women were fighting over him and he was enjoying it.
2007-03-23 02:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is he just your crush? does he like you or her or both? i can imagine that he kind of got a kick out of two ladies arguing over him.
2007-03-23 02:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by charbarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋