First, understand this is a girl I'm in love with commenting to a friend of hers on myspace who's boyfriend broke up with her. This came off a blog:
"well, i think everything you said in that was a 100% true! there is no perfect relationship. but you have to remember that your not the only one in the relationship the girl always puts 110% into their relationships and most boys dont. its not fare to us that we get hurt and they act as if everything is just great! we have to learn to only put in as much as we get. he should have called to talk about, if he really cared. so i think you should not worry about it, cause he needs to be the one to make the next move, if there is one."
All I did to the girl in the above comment was love her. That's why I didn't try that hard to go out with her. That's why I was afraid when she said she was falling in love with someone else, I told a friend, and just for her to find out and get mad at me and not talk to me for 11 months. I've said sorry
2007-03-22 18:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and meant it just for her to tell me she never wants to talk to me again over something so stupid. Actually, even better, she said there's no reason why she doesn't want to talk to me. I try to be nice to her and be her friend after almost a year of not talking because I miss her and I want her back, but she wants to ignore me like I ain't no-damn-body! That's what's not fair.
2007-03-22 18:57:52 · update #1
I tried to talk to her but she didn't look at me or utter a word to me.
2007-03-22 19:00:46 · update #2
I guess I was so busy ranting I didn't notice I didn't ask a question. Ok-What's wrong here? I guess that's the question
2007-03-22 19:03:28 · update #3
She says it not fair to them when they get hurt and apparently we act like everything is just great. I say it's not fair to me when I get hurt and when I try to talk to her I'm just a brick wall or a doormat.
2007-03-22 19:11:44 · update #4
Actually, she wants to say guys act like everything is just great, but she don't want to fix anything.
2007-03-22 19:14:16 · update #5
Find a girl that will on;y put her 50% into the relationship and not one that will put 110% This will leave room for you to get to know her better. As or this girl you say you love now. Sorry in my opinion she's just bla bla bla bla. Find a girl who wants to be your friend and not the therapist.
2007-03-22 19:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Answer Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right! Guys do act like everything is ok when it clearly is not. Perhaps to avoid the real problem, i guess. After a while of "sweeping stuff under the rug" a girl/woman gets tired of the one sided effort and lack of resolution involved in the relationship. Let her live her life if she choses not to be with you. It obviously isnt meant to be.
2007-03-23 02:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long and cut the drama out your life!
2007-03-23 01:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Superfly21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a question in there somewhere?
2007-03-23 01:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋