I have a crush on Brodie...and he has a female friend who cannot stand me being his friend. She is my supervisor. She has stood in front of everyone including customers & said that if I was a real woman I'd take Brodie away from her. He says they are not dating. She informed me of other me who are "not interested" in me. These men are longtime friends...not potential lovers. I call Brodie "Baby" and he calls me "Baby" too. He started it! Tonight Dracula Woman blew up when I called him "Baby" so I called her my second favorite "B" word! Now she's says she's gonna get me fired! I told her she didn't know what trouble she'd be in if I opened my mouth! She got mad about two weeks ago when he came to my house and demanded to know if we slept together. Then this week she asked if I had my period. Like she was checking if I was pregnant. I neither slept with him or got pregnant! He did make a comment while he was visiting me concerning if there was room enough in my bed for him too. What now?
2007-03-22 18:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't sexual harassment, but it is "creating a hostile work environment." You need to start documenting incidents (dates, places, etc.) and gathering witnesses. Once you've got the goods you go to her boss and bring up the possibility of your filing a lawsuit. When her boss starts putting pressure on her she will either shape up or get fired. Note that none of this works unless you have evidence that will stand up in court -- your witnesses have to have actually seen her behavior and/or heard what she said or their testimony is hearsay.
2007-03-22 18:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is harrassment on some caliber and (here's a good one) creating a hostile work environment
2007-03-22 18:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not sexual harassment so much as high school drama at work. Tell her to back off or switch jobs.
2007-03-22 18:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn, you sure know how to get yourself into trouble! Have you always been an expert at that? LOL
Good luck hon. I enjoy reading your exploits, always. Keep us posted, please.
Jon
2007-03-22 18:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tmi..tmi..tmi...just don't deal yourself with these people
2007-03-22 18:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say "i quit 'B' !"
2007-03-22 19:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by tinklefaerie88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋