OK me and my bf were together for 2 years and i broke up with him because i didn't feel like we were in love it felt more like we were friends and he still calls me and ims me and tells me that he cares about me but here yet he was seen out in town riding around with this girl he talked to when we first started dating that almost broke us up because he still texted her secretly is that too soon for him to move on? i mean we lived together the last 6 months why should it make me mad now??
2007-03-22 18:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, please move on. Just start your new life. Obviously he has kept her on the back burner, probably fed her some sausage on the QT. The whole purpose of dating is to determine if the guy is right for you. Him dipping his candle so soon just reinforces the soundness of your decision to broom him. Move on, mission accomplished.
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2007-03-22 18:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard to saying you may not want him, but you don't want anyone else to have him. Well, you are no different than anyone else. Breakups are hard to handle even if you have made the right decision in leaving him. Once you truly love someone, I believe you will love him for a lifetime, even in the relationship does not last a lifetime. Obviously the relationship was not a good healthy one, but that doesn't mean that you do not still have feelings for him. If you think it will help the situation, I suggest you take some time and distance yourself from him. Tell him that you don't want him to contact you for a while, until you are ready to have a friendship with him. Asking for a little space is perfectly ok. Time will take care of the rest of those jealous feelings.
2007-03-23 01:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know why him cheating on you when you were together didn't make you mad, but now that he's free to do what he wants, you get mad. Got me stumped!
2007-03-23 01:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself ...... you were more like friends ... so I'd say no , it's not too soon . If you really believed what you said you should've actually expected it.It sounds to me that maybe you are regretting your decision. ????
2007-03-23 01:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously because you still have a feelings for him....but girl u need to move on.
2007-03-23 01:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by pam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My boyfriend and I". Sounds to me like he wants a buddy, not a lover. Big difference.
2007-03-23 01:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a tinge of jealousy.
2007-03-23 01:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋