Okay here goes. so there is this girl i work with right. and we are friends and all but i like her. shes in a relationship with this guy that doesnt want her to have any friends and she isnt supposed to hang out with his friends either. he is in jail at the moment. anyways she always tells him if she has made a friend and then he says he doesnt want her to be friends with them so she stops being friends. the part that confuses me is that we have been friends for a while and she hasnt told him about me. whats that about? OH and she told me she is going to see him tomorrow but she doesnt really want to until he gets out. she seems unhappy. anyways does this mean she is starting to like me or something? please advice would be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-22 18:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she likes you, but as long as that other punk is in the background she isn't worth pursuing. This guy is in jail, and that doesn't mean anything because many women are stupid enough to keep dating criminals instead of nice guys. Also, talk means nothing either. A girl can talk to you for many hours without being the least interested in you romantically. If you really want to be bold, you can ask her why she doesn't drop the chump and get with you. But if she doesn't like you a lot already, that could make her turn away. I'd just talk to her for now, and not spend much time on her either until she breaks up with him. Good luck!
2007-03-22 18:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this relationship. It is poison. There are so many thing wrong here.
1) Do not have a relationship with a co-worker. There could be human relations/sexual harassment issues.
Career killing conflict and any break up will messing as you see each other everyday.
2) This chick goes for these low character thugs. Many things wrong with that.
3) This girl is controlled and manipulated by a guy in jail. Give me a break.
You do not want the drama. Step up your game and find something better.
Charge this girl to the game and move on.
2007-03-23 02:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off she is in a very controlling relationship--this guy is controlling her from a jail cell. He is causing her misery by telling her not to have any friends--she is keeping you a "secret" because she does not want to lose you as a friend. It should not be that way, but he is indirectly forcing her to do this. Of course she is unhappy and she will continue to be as long as she is with this person who is not respecting her. He is a control freak and does not deserve her at all. She is lucky to have you as a friend and at this point I would not get angry at her for keeping you a secret from him--obviously she likes you and does not want to lose you. I would be supportive of her and protect her--he is not right for her. When she realizes this, then I would tell her your feelings for her. Good luck!!
2007-03-23 01:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be interested in you, but she is still hung up on jail boy. Truthfully, do you really want to get involved with a girl who has a guy in jail? Who will be getting out and not enjoy that his girl likes you? DRAMA! Wow. If she totally told jail boy that it is over, I might see things differently. Until then, we do not want to see you on cops with him chasing you shirtless and bare foot down the street over a young lady who cannot own up to her own feelings and desires. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 01:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be two things one she values u as a great Friend and doesn't want to have to say goodbye to you or two she has strong feelings for you doesn't know what to do or handle the current situation either way you are playing with fire this guy is a control freak and who's what will happen play it safe if you want to be with her be strait up tell her if you have feelings and if she feels the same she needs to break up with her current boyfriend .hopefully it all works out .
2007-03-23 01:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by kkwants to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man go ahead and change her life, u dont understand but she knows that her way sucks and is lookin for sumbody and u the playa, the 5 starred man for her. even if u dont advance as a girl she will call u her best friend. so ifu like her explain what u feel bro. its hard for girl to go ahead at first but u should do. man make me happy im single and i dont wanna people like me hangin around by themselves. hope u get ma idea n do it
2007-03-23 01:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm gonna have to say she is starting to like you. I mean if you are much more nicer than her boyfriend then yeah she is. Of course there is a possibility that she wants YOU to help her!
2007-03-23 01:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the keeper
She's yours, now just don't do anything too stupid and she will forget about the other guy!
2007-03-23 01:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by legendary_trev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will explaine it to you.
2007-03-23 01:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ihate c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋