Hey all.. been with my girl for 9 years, well for a few weeks I thought she and this guy were having a "fling" together... she was hiding things, calls, text messages, etc... but I never did find out anything. She assured me nothing was going on and nothing was there. She assured me she is not friends with him and wouldn't talk to him again....
Well I then find out something nasty this guy had done with another girl. I told my girlfriend and it seems like she can't believe it. She thinks I am just "making this up" to see how she would react, or try to get me to have her hate him because I think there's something going on. She tells me she doesn't care if the guy did anything or not.. but yet she still thinks I am lying, which I am not. I didn't make up anything.
Anyway, what do you all think about this? Did my girl and this other guy do anything? What do you think
2007-03-22 18:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by dennis q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every night she says... "I think your lying.. he wouldn't do that..." Not to mention she is CONSTANTLY defending his actions
2007-03-22 18:36:57 · update #1
I'm sorry to say, but her actions sound very suspicious. Maybe you should get yourself checked. Just in case.
2007-03-22 18:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's possible going by what you've said BUT.... you have a 9 year investment in this relationship ..... this is your life .... please don't lend too much credit to this manor of advice. You should talk to a close friend or family member about this .... someone who knows her and the way she usually reacts to things.Sometimes it's hard to focus on the facts alone. Maybe they can help you sort it out . Take care : )
2007-03-23 01:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not she DID/or DIDN'T......you guys have bigger problems. You don't trust one another and find ways to "dig" at your relationship. Nine years is a LONG time, and I would not throw that away. However, you both need some serious soul searching and possibly counseling to remedy the situation and get your relationship healthy and back on track.
2007-03-23 01:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by bubblingbroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say for positive of course, but it was more than just friends. But hey, if you two have been together for nine years and no real commitment has taken place, I think I would be out looking else where too!
2007-03-23 01:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoy should not have open your mouth, until you have proof. then you should have given that to your girlfriend. if she is defending him. hummmmm! sound like she is dating him to.
2007-03-23 01:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like the looks of this keep an eye on her . i think you got it. she is. watch her
2007-03-23 01:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty sure they got it on
2007-03-23 01:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by thejury 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋