should i believe him???

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years n we both messed up in the past i've changed but i sometimes think he has'nt. He use to talk to girls but he so say doesn't any more.About a month ago a girl text him...well that was drama. well today she text him he says that its not his fault that she doesn't get the point.He text her back in front of me in told her to stop so....do you think she still writes to him because he still does to??Do you think she will stop texting him?? should i believe what he tells me because its happen before...it seems like he prefers her he tells me he doesn't but thats what i seems like should i believe him???????

Answer 1

Let his actions speak for him and go from there

Answer 2

You telling a man that you've messed around with someone is like taking a bath in dirty water. He will never forget it, whether he saids he does or not. Him texting this girl is constant reminder that you betrayed him with some guy. He wants you to know how it feels to be betrayed. And its obvious that there's no trust in this relationship. I say ask him whats going on and if the answer he gives you doesn t add up dump his ***. Every girl good or bad deserves better!

Answer 3

Cell phones are nice and convenient, but BOY do they ever create problems in relationships! Your man is right when he says that he can't help that she texts him. My husband has females calling him (not on the regular) but every now and again, he'll get a text from a female. He said the same thing, that he can't help that somebody texts him. At first, this really bothered me, but "actions speak louder than words". He gives me TONS of attention and spends every minute with me when we're not working. So, I'd think that if your man is showing you that he loves you, then don't question it. Let it ride. If he's not giving you that "quality time" that you want and deserve, then I'd start wondering.

Answer 4

I take it there's no ring on your finger, so quit stressing. You are only dating the guy...that means you are checking to see if he has the qualities you want in a lifetime partner. If he says he is being truthful and loyal, believe him until you have proof showing otherwise. No, a text message from another girl doesn't count unless it says she'll meet him somewhere sometime. Quit looking for trouble where trouble may not exist. Nothing is more of a turnoff to a guy than a jealous lady. Get a hold of yourself and show some self-respect, quit the jealousy act and show your guy that you trust him until you have proof to make you feel otherwise.

Answer 5

Woman are good at instinct if you think something is up,..most likely something is.On the other hand we tend to over think a lot too which can be damaging to our relationship.Try to talk to him about it.Maybe he does really love you and means no harm.If he text her back in front of you and some how when your not around he's telling her something else, then what does that say about him?The other girl should/will get the hint soon enough.Allow him to at least try to prove himself.

Answer 6

Always trust your gut instincts--obviously he is still talking to girls since this girl is texting him. In my opinion, based on what you described, he is in fact talking to her or she would not be communicating with him. He is disrespecting you and you deserve a lot better than that. Maybe try stepping back from the relationship and then see if he really cares. Good luck!!

Answer 7

I don't know what to think but if he truly prefers this other girl tell him to have her because you can do better.

Answer 8

trust him till u catch him cheating then dump him,..... but u never kno he might b telling u the truth...giv him a chance 2 prove himself 2 u

Answer 9

see-i never had the 'text option" in any relationship. last time that i knew-cheating did not involve a phone and typing letters.

Answer 10

Honey belive him fix it give him a chance