For the last 2 years I've battled my ex over my daughter. He doesn't stick to the court ordered vistation. Anything that is ordered in court he thinks is joke. This past month or two has been rough. He's been calling like 50 times aday leaving threatn messages, my daughter is histrical, tonight he called the cops on me. he told them I was abusing my daughter. The cops came didn't find 1 mark on her body. I need him out of her life. He is only do damage to her. I feel I need to take her to therapist for everything but as other things he doesn't pay ordered child support, and I can not afford to take her to a therapist. Can I have his rights terminated or heck even modified would do. Right now he has one weekend a month. I don't know how much lower it can go. But this is emotionally damaging to my daughter and me. I filed papers in san diego, I just filed 2 days ago 2 have the case moved here to where we both live. Can I file an emergancy hearing in fear of my daughters safety?
2007-03-22 18:33:52 · 5 answers · asked by harmycj 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes you can and you can also file for a Victims Protective Order for you and the child (since she is a minor). If that VPO is granted (which I am sure it would be) it supercedes the visitation agreement in the divorce decree. You can file a motion to modify the decree as well and plead your case to the judge. Be sure to keep copies of any and all messages that he has left you too. They may be inadmissable in court but it still may help your case. You should also call the police on him for making these threats so that you have something documented!
2007-03-23 04:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can file an emergency hearing. I believe different counties have different procedures so I don't want to give you the wrong info, sorry can't help you out much. I do wish you and your daughter the best. I'm kinda going through a similar situation and I know being separated and having a child in the middle of all this can be a living hell!
I think your daughter is however very lucky to have you as a mother, who is willing to fight for her.
2007-03-23 01:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's leaving threatening messages you can do alot! You can get a restraining order for starters, and you can and SHOULD terminate his visitation for the sake of your precious baby. Anyone who would do something to upset their child does not care for her, and is trying to use her to hurt you. How messed up! Don't give up, or something really bad may happen to her and you would have to live with the guilt forever. As for therapy, I hope you find a way to take her. I tried to kill myself when I was a teenager because of my father being that way when I was younger too.I know I'll always have some emotional problems because of it. I'm not trying to scare you, I just want you to know how important it is to stay strong for her! My thoughts are with you and I know you will win.
2007-03-23 01:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by boo kitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you can ... my ex only has supervised visitation with our teen aged children because he is a danger to himself and others
save the messages he leaves and let the courts hear them get all the police reports on him and the ones he has made on you take them to court with all of that you can show he is a threat to you and your child
2007-03-23 03:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can file for a restraining order and be sure you saved his threatening messages to present to the court
2007-03-23 01:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋