i've been liking this guy for 2 weeks now and i could not wait to tell at least one person so i told this one gurl whom i often see in the library, she's my "after-school-library-friend" and told her about this guy and told his name and she was like ...."HE'S MY BROTHER!" and i could not believe it....she's really nice and things but i did not want her to think i'm too crazy about her BROTHER or might even think im stalking him...
anyway, she had told me that many girls had told her about how 'cute' her brother too so i'm basically not the only one...well yeah..
my question is, is there a way for his sister to kind of hook me up 2 him...BUT not exactly 'hook-up relationship' but u know, get to know my name and get to know me personally?
PS: since he does not know me at all, is there away for me to befriend w/ him...at least....?
thanks!
2007-03-22 18:23:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does this library friend of yours like u? she might help u get his attention towards you if she really thinks you're sweet..smart..and perfect for her brother.
2007-03-22 18:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by fade_as_snowflake 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose the friend! Not her brother because if he's got all these girls liking him, he might be a dog. You can't talk to her about her brother! She'll have loyalty issues, dont put her in the middle like that. Friends are hard to come by, and if you thought enough of her to tell her your secret,it must mean you appreciate her friendship. These things can get very complicated really quickly.....don't say you warent warned should you proceed with liking this boy. I'm sure there are others. If there isnt, just wait a little while, more cute guys will show up.
2007-03-23 01:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dependent upon many factors. If you guys are good friends, then I'm sure it won't hurt. And yes, she probably will help you because of the close connection.
On the contrary, there can be many detrimental factors playing in. If the sister, although a friend, believes you are potentially hazardous to the family then she can often manipulate the brother to not like you. She can also take control of the situation through many means and see through the whole relationship if she wanted to. And lastly, its just plain awkward to have you friend going out with your sibling; especially if you knew the friend before the dating occurred. Human nature - it's complicated.
So define yourself in this situation, be nice to the sister (not too nice to make it obvious) and hopefully everything turns out fine. Also, if you do get closer to the brother, I would advise you to still keep a close relationship to the friend because jelousy can have a hand in the interaction and thus cause complications. In other words, don't just completely ignore the friend when you are with the boy. Bad idea.
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 01:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His siter is honestly the best way to hook up with him, just start befriending the sister really well and work your way into her house, i know its sneaky but thats the only way he'll notice you. Once you get to her house and have eye to eye contact and some small talk, then you could decide wether for her to help you out or if you would like to take it upon yourself to get the man in question.
2007-03-23 01:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolas O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is, the question is whether your girlfriend wants to help you or not.
I would suggest telling her honestly how you feel about him, and evaluating her reaction. If she is supportive, ask her to introduce you. If she seems uncomfortable, then back off, or you might lose her as a friend.
2007-03-23 01:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is your friend just hang out with her more often. Her brother is bound to show up once in a while right.
2007-03-23 01:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! Get his msn email address or something.Or is your friend's brother already attached? If he is, then its not a good idea after all
2007-03-23 01:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Vampiregirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him try to contact him say hello and start conversation and nature will take care of the rest.
2007-03-23 01:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask u fren if u can go to your friend house than you see her brother say hi and can be fren gd luck!
2007-03-23 01:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....if i were u.....i would get to kno his sister more...u kno ...the whole go to the house thing.....n wen something goes wrong........ask the brother!!!!that way u could start talkin to him..take it slow one step at a time....but it depends entirely on wat type of a guy he is and wat kind of a girl u are...i had a similar situation too........it just didnt work out for me....so find out bout him first...who knos......it might work for u!!!! all the best kisses
2007-03-23 01:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by daki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋