well all my friends say that i'm too nice but i don't like being mean to ppl..today a guy at lunch told me his friend wanted to talk to me(which was a joke)he was in the 9th grade..and his friend yells out loud infront of his friends and other ppl.."i don't want to talk to that *****"it really hurted my feelings and i didn't say anything(i didn't even kno him)boyz have alwayz considered me as the ugly girl in school but ihave no problem gettin notice outside of school..now i think that maybe i am too nice..how do u change that??
2007-03-22 18:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jane D. 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You do what you want to do,dont change for anybody else.Its not worth it.That boy sounds like he is a jerk.In my opinion ppl today are just mean,they like to joke around and dont care who gets hurt.
2007-03-22 20:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about your self esteem......and you've probally heard that so many times by now, you're rolling your eyes. =)
The only way to overcome this, is by choosing to overcome it and actually forcing yourself to overcome it. This is one of those things that people can tell you what to do all day, but YOU are the only one who can change things.
Learn a few good comebacks, and practice them infront of your mirror. General ones, that can be used for several things. Go find a necklace that you find beautiful, and wear it and KNOW you are beautiful when you wear it. You have to re-adjust your way of thinking...and it's going to be hard....but it CAN be done.
Honestly, don't worry about being ugly in school. Kids in school don't know what beauty truely is, and are still discovering themselves. Boys especially have no clue at that age.
2007-03-22 18:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by kyten13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone be too nice, it is a refreshing change. Stick by your guns, ignore those people who try and make life difficult for you, and when they see you again in ten years time as the beautiful swan you will become, just watch their mouths drop.
2007-03-22 18:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by judles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore these people. If you are placed in an embarrassing situation, just smile then leave that bad memory behind.
I assume you are still young. Just enjoy your life and study hard. If you think you are ugly, then so be it. It's not the end of it, science can do wonders. Be patient.
2007-03-22 19:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by DangerBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you as nice as Jesus Christ? I don't think so.
Just follow His footsteps and you'll see that you weren't as nice as you could be.
It sounds like you're nice, but no body can be too nice.
Just ask Jesus to help you, to give you strength, and to fill your heart with His Love, Peace and Joy.
2007-03-22 19:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"YOU are beautiful no matter what they say and words can't bring you down" well said by Christina Aguilera. Listen to the song itself and you'll definitely feel sorry about those people who bing you down. :)
2007-03-22 18:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋