I have a crush on Brodie...and he has a female friend who cannot stand me being his friend. She is my supervisor. She has stood in front of everyone including customers & said that if I was a real woman I'd take Brodie away from her. He says they are not dating. She informed me of other me who are "not interested" in me. These men are longtime friends...not potential lovers. I call Brodie "Baby" and he calls me "Baby" too. He started it! Tonight Dracula Woman blew up when I called him "Baby" so I called her my second favorite "B" word! Now she's says she's gonna get me fired! I told her she didn't know what trouble she'd be in if I opened my mouth! She got mad about two weeks ago when he came to my house and demanded to know if we slept together. Then this week she asked if I had my period. Like she was checking if I was pregnant. I neither slept with him or got pregnant! He did make a comment while he was visiting me concerning if there was room enough in my bed for him too. What now?
2007-03-22 18:06:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a little confused here. I think you are asking if the lady (your supervisor)is sexually harassing you. If that's the case, yes she is. Harassment is any kind of touching or verbal words used against you without your consent or that make you feel uncomfortable. Basically any action that is "unwanted" is considered harassment. The key is that you work has a rule about this and both you and your colleagues should have signed regarding sexual harassment. If this is really an issue, You should talk to your supervisors boss about her inappropriate behaviors, Especially in front of customers!!! And don't talk about your relationship with the guy in front of other co-workers and customers. And calling him "baby" is innappropriate for the work place. All those things could just set you up for trouble and unwanted attention. And in regards to you calling her the "B word"...try your best to be the bigger person and avoid calling names like that. By doing that, you are letting her see that she has gotten to you and only makes you as low as she is. That's about all the help I can give with the information you provided. Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-03-22 18:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by law90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults keep their private lives private. You've made yours public and you're paying the price. Quit playing mind games with people at work. Don't call anyone baby in the work place not even a spouse. Public displays of affection are just plain tacky! If you want to be treated like a lady you're going to have to behave like one.
2007-03-22 18:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not harassment she is just pissed at you manner towards her man friend back off and tell the guy maybe it is best we stop the name calling untill he sets this crazy cow
straight if they are not datng what business is it of hers to be in your face. It's sounds like she is jealous of you maybe your getting his attention and she is just the friend left on the sidelines? Tell him you are interested in him but he needs to talk to his friend before you and him can hook-up because well she is being a crazy b i t c h .
2007-03-22 18:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does a panda need to do with sexual harassment? in the event you ship a enormous panda to a tuition to speak to children are not they gonna harass it with all of the grabbing, hugs, and kisses?
2016-09-05 12:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by rosebeckjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cat fight!!! This is not "professional" behaviors on you and your supervisor's part. I would fire you both. This kind of conversation and behaviors is not what I want in front of my customers in MY business.
Now you heard it from me who has no clue about where you work, be prepare to hear it from your real boss. Dont engage in such conversation/behaviors with her. Be the professional one but If she persists, then take it to her supervisor.
2007-03-22 18:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is extremely jealous of you because you are the one getting the attention and she is not... the questions she is asking are really crude and are not her business
2007-03-22 18:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Danii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's no-one elses business if you have sex with some one and she's difinately out of line asking about your period. ---------------------------------if you like him and he likes you, make room in your bed, don't worry about what the crazy lady thinks
2007-03-22 18:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you all need to grow up already.
-NmD!
2007-03-22 18:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋