I want to have, really badly. But I am afraid that I am not really ready yet. I have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months and she is patient and said she will wait for me. And it's not that I don't love my gf, I am deeply madly in love with her. What should I do?!
2007-03-22 18:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by willwars1820 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey
You know I will wait for you, don't rush anything. I love you with all my heart and soul. I agree with everyone, wait. Don't worry about losing me, your stuck with me. : p
2007-03-22 18:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax!! u becoming anxious for no reason.
What u are is confused right now, uncertain about weather u ready or not...so relax, breath, u have time on ur side, and an understanding girlfriend-u lucky.
If u need a sign if u ready this is what u do: u buy the condoms, &tell ur girlfriend just to prepare (pills etc),
then the next time u get intimate &hot &heavy when it comes to the time when u can go all the way ask urself if u'd really want to.....
u see no matter when that point occurs u always have the right to say yes or no.
U wont be leaving ur girl hanging because u would have told her u wanted a sign to know.
Sex is a natural thing...so chillax (",)
2007-03-23 01:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, if you don't think your ready, then don't sweat it. It's not that big of a deal. it sounds like you have a wonderful girl friend, so just wait until you feel the time is right. After all, your only a virgin once right?
2007-03-23 01:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. And don't worry - it only feels awkward until you actually get naked - then everything's relaxed again. Wait until you both want to - then go for it...but don't wait too long. Girls have needs too, you know...
PS: Make sure to use a condom - it only takes one time.
2007-03-23 01:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you can have sex and potentially regret it later or you can wait it out until you're really ready
If it's love, she'll wait
2007-03-23 01:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are ready. sounds like you dont take sex lightly which is a good thing.
2007-03-23 01:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait she wants to have sex...and you don't ...wow that is out of the ordinary....just put it in her man...lol....you must have a small dick or something....just do it....its really not that big of a deal....wow you sound like a pussy....personally you waited for a relatioship and she wants you to give it to her...just do the deed...
2007-03-23 01:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time dont rush. this is something that you dont want to rush into. but if you want to do and she knows what shes doing have her teach you along the way. if you have any questions just let me know ill help you out.
2007-03-23 03:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be patient like your gf
if you really can't wait, ask her if she will
2007-03-23 01:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Perfect Worst Nightmare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait. Do yourself a favor, wait until you get married.
2007-03-23 01:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋