I dont trust my boyfriend that much anymore. It seems everyday somebody is calling me and telling me stories of him being with other girls. A guy I barely know actually came up to me and told me that my boyfriend had told him he cheated on me!
he swears he hasn't, but I still feel like I can't trust him or open my heart up to him anymore. I know I still love him, but am I being an idiot?
2007-03-22 17:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you need to have real proof that he is, or just trust him
2007-03-22 17:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he has cheated on you. If theres a lot of people comming up to you and telling you that you bf is cheating, it is most liely that its true. Have you watch "The Hills"? You're in a similar situation as this one girl on that show. Watch it if you havent, you can learn a lot about relationships. Anyway, your bf is lying to you big time! People would not be telling you that he's cheating on you for no reason. You need to confront him about it. Dont think about getting back together with him because you cant trust this guy anymore, which you need a lot of trust in order for a relationship to be strong and to last long. I suggest you move on with this loser, dont let this jerk waste your time and hurt you because you dont deserve this crap.
2007-03-23 01:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump to conclusions but do keep your guard up. It does seem like he is cheating but until you have proof, u really can not accuse him. Either trust him or move on to someone who u can trust.
2007-03-23 01:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to find it out.... if a lot people was telling you already i guess you should do something about it... it's a girl's instinct! listen to your guts.... if you found out that he really cheated you, then talk to him... and let go of someone who can't be true to you.... but, if found out that he really hasn't, you should learn to trust him... learn to open your heart to him since you said that you still love him....
2007-03-23 01:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered you own question. If you can't trust him you can't love him. And if you can't do that then there is no point in the relationship. You need to dump him.
2007-03-23 01:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by burn409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant say yes or know because i dont know him but if people are telling you stuff then you sould get people you trust to just kinda follow him you know and watch who hes with and watch what he dose, when this happend to me i did the above and it turned out some chick ways paying people to say that because she hated my gf
2007-03-23 01:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by justin glenn Aka Duo Maxwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like there is some trust issues that you need to talk
to him about if everyone is staying the same things there
might be somethings there to talk to him about, you know what
they say if it walk, talk like a duck it usually is a duck. if you
know what i mean.
2007-03-23 01:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don t you get a friend to hit on him and you will see
if you can trust him or not. My girlfriend did. And I passed
the test!!!!! wooo hooooo!!!!!
Thats the only way to make sure or get proof, if you can
trust him.
2007-03-23 01:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, if random people are telling you things and you have doubts as well. listen to your gut. you will know if something is up, and just because he says he isnt doing something doesnt mean it is the truth and you know that
2007-03-23 00:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Justin B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thy could be just telling you that . ti up to you to see for your self. and if he is let the rat go.and i think your heart knows whats going on good luck
2007-03-23 01:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋