my girlfriend told me if **insert person's name** even looked at me, she would beat the crap out of this person. my sister says this is insecure, i dont think so--i like it, it makes me feel special
2007-03-22 17:50:05 · 18 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, she knows i wouldnt cheat on her, secondly this person that she was telling me about is kind of a slut. what i enjoy about it is that she cares enough about me to look out for me.
2007-03-22 17:54:56 · update #1
i will give you an example: when one of her friends called me wierd, she got mad and hasnt talked to her in about a month now
2007-03-22 17:56:18 · update #2
Maybe not so much insecure as protective. I think a lot of people blur that line.
2007-03-22 17:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be flattering for you, but stay away from whoever she is talking about if you want her confidence in the relationship.
There would be nothing worse than looking back and wondering what yourself and this persons motives were while you 2 were together . Not saying that the relationship wont last but for you to play on this is just adding fuel to the fire .
Instead find something else you like about her and focus on that. She might even find something else for her to love about herself - Therefore taming your girlfriend and creating security between you both.
Your girlfriend should be able to make you feel special without other women interfearing. Decide who is making you feel special her or the other woman . And remember it is you who has now brought the other person into it to make the other woman a part of your relationship. Its probably there you will find your girlfriends insecurities.
There are probably alot of people out there who are jeallous of u and her together so dont give in to tempting flirts.
Trust how your girlfriend feels and do as she says. And always be supportave of her.
Play your part in the relationship so that you are not instigating the problem. And be honest to yourself.
If you can get over this you will probably make room for finding more of her to LOVE.
;-)
2007-03-22 18:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by white_angel_amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly why they say "different strokes for different folks"I think that kind of behavior is inmature, insecure,and completely unacceptable,but I'm not the one in the arena with this one you are,and you feel special and like your girlfriend in a rage of anger over you,so have a good time and be prepared to get punched out yourself if she finds out you said "hello" to the cashier at the grocery store,or a friend,or anyone else female.
2007-03-22 18:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u know what u should already do. Leave him.I always ahve believed once a cheater always a cheater. Just cause u have a baby with him doesn't mean u have to be with him.I've been through this before with the father of my daughters. He was a worthless piece of trash always has been always will b. It will be a matter of time before he gets someone pregnant. Get out while u can
2016-03-29 00:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure.........but the other girl shouldn't even be looking at you since you have a girlfriend and if she does it is not about you it is about her trying to make your girlfriend mad, girls do that a lot. Appalling but true..
2007-03-22 17:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a type of insecurity, or could it be jelousy? I personally would not be upset if someone was lookin at mine because I know I have something that someone else admires. But that is just me.
2007-03-22 17:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your girlfriend is not the one that is insecure. If your girlfriend has to be willing to beat someone up just to keep her from looking at you to make you feel special. You're a sad sad little case!
2007-03-22 17:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
She might just be playing. Or if she is serious, then she is weird. i can't understand it, because I won't do that. If someone , or a lot of girls like to look at my boyfriend, then I will just be happier. Shouldn't you be proud of it? that you have someone that everyone wants? but only you can have?
maybe you should talk to her about it.
2007-03-22 18:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by love2you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that's what I say when someone keeps staring at me. It gets on your nerves after a while especially when you are with your boyfriend.
2007-03-22 17:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends because if it's an ex then yeah you really can't blame her role reversal if one of her ex's did that to her im sure you would beat his *** too!
2007-03-22 17:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋