2007-03-22 17:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by Shasta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a great question!!!
Here are my suggestions:
Wow! I feel really honoured you would want to have sex with me but you know I am just not ready yet.
I get so excited when I am with you and I am really looking forward to the time when we will but now is not the right time.
I want you to know that I want to but I have decided to wait until.......
You know Id rather let out relationship develop more fully before we go that far..
No thanks! I know I wont be ready for sex for ........
We can go this far..... but no further until I feel more ready..
We need to wait until I know it is right for me... but in the meantime we can hug!
2007-03-22 17:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even before you two get physical, you should be talking about your expectations for a relationship...
Tell him, "I'm the kind of person that takes things slowly" or "I'm the type of person that likes to get to know someone first before I have sex..." You can also tell him (if you are, and if you feel comfortable): "I'm a virgin and want to wait for a long time before I have sex... I'm just not ready."
Also, tell him clearly how far you are willing to go, so he has clear boundaries (kissing? making out? etc) and so he doesn't have to guess.
Also, ask HIM what his expectations are for the relationship, and how soon he wants sex. Because he's already thinking about it... but overall, be honest and straightforward. He'll appreciate it.
2007-03-23 01:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by thedrisin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "No." Or, don't get yourself caught in a situation where sex might come up. Like don't be alone with a guy at your house on a bed or something. Being in public places will make make it harder for a guy to try and have sex with you.
2007-03-23 01:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by o0o0o0o0o0o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A plain and simple "NO".
If he loves u, he shld respect ur decisions.
If he forces himself onto u, he is not worth it. Leave. Becoz he isnt paying u enuf respect.
If he stays where u told him to stay, then he is da man... He respects ur wishes, and respects ur body. And he values the relationship.
2007-03-23 01:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by MISSinterpreted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say no. That's what I did and my boyfriend and I are going to be celebrating our 9th month together tomorrow.
2007-03-23 00:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out say no! It's your body and your choice.
2007-03-23 00:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"No." Thats the best way. Hard to argue with too.
2007-03-23 00:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Not yet..." or something like that so it sounds like it's a little early, but soon.
2007-03-23 00:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Perfect Worst Nightmare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me think about it???????????????? ok it's NO, NO
2007-03-23 00:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋