A lot of girls tell me I'm the sweetest guy ever. I compliment on the tiniest things, I open doors, I'm always sweet to girls I like. If I'm so nice, why do they all have boyfriends who cheat on them, fight with them, disrespect them and more? If I'm so nice, why am I not with the girl I love so much? She won't even talk to me anymore. What if I started insulting her (I wouldn't actually mean it), treating her like she's trash even though she's special, and started just treating her downright evil?
2007-03-22 17:35:14 · 5 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not saying this is definite, but maybe this is just the wrong girl. i mean the guy who is the love of my freekin life is the sweetest guy i know. if she wants to be someone who will take crap from trashy guys. let her be like that. but you cant change her. but i honestly dont get why other girls do that..i just want a sweet guy who can be like a best friend. but more...
any more questions?.
email me. oh.mymymy@yahoo.com
2007-03-22 17:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listennnnnn..... to ya boy. Nice guys finish last its true. But don't let it change you. You have to be patient and just wait. Show every girl you are into, what a good guy looks like. I mean there are a billion jerks, but how many really nice guys are out there. You have to stick out from the pack. Believe me the right girl will notice. Take it from a fellow nice guy. The ones who are into jerks are doing nothing but losing out. Just hold your ground.
2007-03-23 00:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, it is my experience that girls tell this to guys when there is no chemistry. Maybe they aren't attracted to you, maybe they don't see you as having much in the way of a personality--all really shallow things, right? So whatever the reason for that may be... don't worry--most girls will grow out of the phase where they like bad guys.
If you want to change, learn to make girls laugh which is a million times more desirable (in my humble opinion) than a guy who is a jerk!!!
2007-03-23 00:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because some girls are either too blinded by love to get out of a bad relationship or they feel they deserve to be treated like crap. We aren't all like that. And you didn't give much info i can't tell you why your not with the girl you love so much because you didn't give much info. Did she dump you or what happened to your relationship that she won't talk to you anymore?
2007-03-23 00:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she'd start liking you, you never freaking know w/ girls. i'm one & i don't know what i want. most of my female friends are attracted to the "bad greasy" type. but then again, you'd catch more flies with honey than vinegar...or something along those lines. anyhow, do you really want to attract flies? girls that are attracted to crappy guys?
2007-03-23 00:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋