my bf is a sports buff... i go with him to almost every game, you know for support and bcoz I love watching him play... but ryt now, I don't even think he asked me what I want to do... sometimes I think he's too insensitive.. I do it for love but sopmetimes, i can't help but complain bcoz I feel like I'm the only 1 doing my best to keep the relationship intact. sure, he goes with me sometimes but he often complains about silly things like the heat of the sun, or how tiring it is to walk around the mall... i just really want a little appreciation and a little effort.... pls..... i need words of encouragement from ppol i don't know bcoz ppol i know(girls) always take his side... i feel like the bad guy...
2007-03-22 17:28:52 · 7 answers · asked by aeijae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him, and tell him how you feel
2007-03-22 17:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk sorry but if you spend your time doing stuff he likes then the same should be for the stuff you like.
When you are in a relationship your suppose to just enjoy being together and spending time with the person your with.
Your also sauppose to be finding out more about the person and what interests they have also reveling if you have any similar interests. He sounds like a jock and well some of them it's just not in them to walk around the mall or go to the beach just to enjoy the sun and company. Be careful it is a known fact that alot of jocks are promiscous becuase they are always around alot of girls that want to be the next GF.
Then of course you have all the bimbos that are just like he so cute and look at his butt I wish he was mine. Remember the door swings both ways tell him if he wants you to be serious then he has to start thinking of you and stop being so insensitive to your needs and to ask what you want to do sometimes rather then him telling you what your going to do.
Stand up for yourself until you do he is just going to walk all over you, and well you sound young if this cause's him to dump you well maybe it is for the best you deserve better you know that for a fact.
God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-23 00:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with other guys make him feel like you are not going to put endless amounts of effort into the relationship. Watch out though it might make him depressed, but it is more likely to make him jealous. He will then feel like he should give you a little more attention.
2007-03-23 00:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do something without him. You don't have to be attached at the hip. On a night that he has to play go out with friends or family and just tell him that you can't go to his game. Yes you need to be able to do the things that you like to do as well.
2007-03-23 00:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should dump him it sounds like to me that he is way to insensitive for u!!!!!! u are willing to do stuff for him because u love him but he isnt willing to do anything for u that is just plain rude find another guy. a guy that is willing to do stuff for a and treat u right u dont deserve a guy like this one u seem like a really nice person that doesnt deserve to be treated like crap.
well good luck.
2007-03-23 00:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sure sounds selfish dump him for someone that will listen to you and treat you the way you deserve.
2007-03-23 01:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you suppourt him and his passions and you are being ignored, something you should bring up and point out to him. people need to give as much as they give. why do girls take his side? do they not care about their own interests or are they just servants to their bfs? or are they jealous cause they dont have bfs?
2007-03-23 00:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by archfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋