after expressing our love to her parents she does not talk to me as her parents are opposing our relation. she loved me but now i am really confused by her behaviour. pls help
2007-03-22 17:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by depresd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both are of diffrent religion iam hindu and she is muslim i fought with my family three times for this girl and evry time i stayed firm with my love and she broke evrything in a strange way.
2007-03-22 17:12:46 · update #1
Hi,
Just ask your parents to talk with her once and try to find out the reason behind her silence.
I personally feel it might be "emotional blackmail" from her parents. May be her father or mother or even both would have said "we will commit suicide; you should not marry him etc;".. it happens in every family. It happened in my life 3 years back when I was in college.
The best solution is to ask your parents to talk with that girl - don't waste time in this issue. Do it immediately. Then on knowing the reason proceed with her parents.
I feel this is the only and best solution available.
2007-03-22 17:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that sounds really filmy........i personally think that she's being emotionally blackmailed by her parents....i mean she is from a totally different religion and parents tend to have security issues plus all that stuff about society main izzat...wait 4 a week..send her a mail asking if she loves u or if she'd rather stay wid her parents...if the ans is negative ,dude move on .don't get violent a nd don't break any1's heart
2007-03-23 02:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by shruti r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does not really love u, maybe she just likes u. Maybe her love for her parents are real and deep while she just likes u, but does not love u. Be patient and wait, maybe her liking will change into love, if not, then it is better to look for another girl, who will love u a lot.
2007-03-23 00:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be religion problem. Her parents may have created such circumstance, due to which she is behaving like this. Speak to her and know what had happened. Then come to a decision.
2007-03-23 02:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very tough for a girl when it comes to choose b/w a boyfriend and family if she loves both... most of the time she tends to choose the family cos she been in it her whole life.. right.. just put yourself in her shoes n think.. may be, you'l get the answer..
2007-03-23 01:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that her parents don't think your good enough for their daughter. which is not uncommon. she should come around again just cause she will want to go against her parents wishes and also if it is true love it will stay and wait. but i would stay true to just her for now. because if you mess around on her she will think wow my parents were right. so just stay true to her and wait it out. :)
2007-03-23 00:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens my friend.
all the best ahead
2007-03-26 05:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋