In December he went back to Mexico to visit his famliy and met another girl he said he was going to come back to marry me.but he brought back another girl.and she was already pregnant when he met her 2 months pregnant.I having a hard time deal with this where does his decision leave me? I feel very heart broken.how would you react if a guy did that to you? my Dad knows this guy I always have to here about this girl and the baby.it really drives me crazy what can I do?
2007-03-22 17:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RUN AS FAR AWAY FROM THIS GUY AS POSSIBLE! I know you don't want to hear that, hell, i know i never wanted to hear it but, in the end, you will be happy you followed this advice. As a woman who has been in MANY hopeless relationships that appear to be THE RIGHT ONE then spiral downwards into a pit of doom, I've learned that if a relationship STARTS out bad, honey, it will END that way as well. You think you this guy is just so wonderful because he is your " BEST FRIEND AND LOVER" but when you have the realization of another girl pregnant you quickly learn this might not be the guy for you. There are so many guys out there and to waste your life on one who can't even make up his mind about you... is a shame. RUN as far away from this soap opera mess as you can. Good look and god bless
2007-03-22 17:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by sylke_smooth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself very carefully.
You were with a guy who went to Mexico and brought back another girl, who was already pregnant.
You deserve a guy who is going to love you and be true to you.
I have no doubt that you are mourning this relationship, but take this time to learn. Don't jump into a new relationship just to get over this person.
Get strong so that you can be ready to meet a man who is of greater quality than this guy.
2007-03-23 00:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he were going to come back and marry you, he wouldn't have brought back the other pregnant girl. Don't wait for him. Move on! You can do so much better than a guy like him.
2007-03-23 00:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why did he bring her back? Kinda confusing. If he wants to be with you then he should be with you and let this other girl figure her own life out. I'm assuming it's not his baby since you said she was 2 months pregnant when he met her. If it's not his baby, then why is he making it his business to take care of her? Doesn't she have family or someone to help her out?
2007-03-23 00:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you misunderstood the relationship. Are if he did it to you be glad he left you before he married you. Sometime we have to be glad for people no matter what they do to you. Just try and be strong and wait on the man that will be your husband he will care more for you then this person must have.
2007-03-30 23:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ame thing happened to me where she got pregnant on vacation. its been a year and a half and i'm just now getting over it
2007-03-23 00:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him and love yourself!
Please believe he's not as happy as it may appear.
2007-03-30 23:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by TraDeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he cares for you, he will understand.
2007-03-23 00:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ive T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he moved on , so you need to
2007-03-30 13:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋