I saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he's a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care? I don't understand why I still can't get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart? His staus on facebook says that he's single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he's NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music & I know he never listens to this kind of music, So does it mean hes thinking of me?
2007-03-22 17:00:11 · 2 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feeling attached to someone has little to do with sex. You may feel attached to someone you have never slept with, and totally detached from somebody you HAVE slept with. Obviously you invested some emotions into this man and they have not gone away. Over time this will hopefully go away, especially when you fall for someone else. But it's perfectly natural for you to feel this way about someone you cared about.
2007-03-22 17:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Prince J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says being attached has anyhting to do with having sex. Haven't you heard of One night stands (where people have sex and nothing comes out of it, sometimes stranges have sex).. Being attached means you love some one or at least care for them.
2007-03-23 00:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by good_but_naughty_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋