There's this really good friend of mine ,and l like her alot but she has this boyfriend that she complains about and that, she knows he isn't the right on but she's still dating him what do i do
2007-03-22 16:58:08 · 4 answers · asked by j_rock032004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listennnn..... to ya boy. I've had many female friends who had the jerk problem some who I was interested in. The way to fix this problem is to make them realize this guy is a jerk. The best way to show her is show your a good guy (if you are good it seems you are). By comparison she will she the stuff he does isn't right. Also if she asked you or tells you something about him looking for an opinion be honest (don't try and steal his girl but don't sugar coat it) For example if she ask you about him flirting with other girls tell her what you think. Also if he mistreats her tell her she's to good to be treated like that (It shows you care and that he's a jerk). You could flat out go for his girl, but that would do nothing but cause confusion with her, and wreck your friendship.
2007-03-22 17:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she knows he isn't the right one, to cut him loose. Otherwise, tell her to shut up and stop venting to you.
As far as you having a chance to be with her, I doubt that will happen since yall are good friends.
Besides, do you want to deal with a woman who has a hard time making tough decisions?
2007-03-23 00:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform her of her lapse in judgement and let her know that that is the first and last time that you will bring the subject up to her. when she finds out on her own comfort her and be her friend. She'll need one.
2007-03-23 00:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of her business until she's strong enough to take care of her baggage
2007-03-23 00:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋