anyone here..who broke up with their bf..like you dump him..then realize....?

Question

then u realize that you still love him so much!!!! but it's too late...cuz you already hurt him..and he may think of u as juz any other girls that would just dump anyone if u feel like it..so he won't come back to your life again....it's too late.... :*( what did u do..how did u handle it..and juz any ideas..your stories..experiences..lessons learned..whats love for you now that it happened to you? i would gladly appreciate your answers..thank you

Answer 1

well... that has happened to me, but i always end up staying friends with my ex's so if i still have feelings for them, i'll just tell them.

then i know for sure if they still like me or not. it's worth a shot, right?

it's only happened once for me that i regretted a break-up. i told him after a while and we ended getting back together.

so really, my lesson was: be straight forward and voice what i feel.
you can't go wrong with it. i mean, i would have never gotten back with him if i hadn't tried.

Answer 2

I broke up a guy that I was really really in love with like almost 3 years ago. I still think about him sometimes, and I wonder if I made a horrible mistake, but for the most part I think that there was a reason that I dumped him and I don't think that things would have changed much if I would have stayed with him. There was probably a reason that you broke up with this guy, so think about that and decide if it was worth it. If you think you made a huge mistake, try to talk to him and see what happens. You are already broken up, what's the worst that could happen? Good luck!

Answer 3

My ex-bf dumped me and he was a player so I will never date him again. As long as if you didn't really hurt the guy that much, you may stil have a chance with him. BUT you're gonna have to work hard to get him, cuz he might play hard-to-get since you dumped him once already and he'll have his defences up to protect himself emotionally. Chase him, be nice, cal him, say sorry etc and maybe you might stil have a chance?

Answer 4

dont worry about what he will think. if you have the feelings, just fight for him.. if you really love him truly and wholeheartedly (as well as he does), then I AM SURE he will feel it and forgive u. good luck. ( i wish my ex do the same to me though, he dumped me and i want him back) =)

Answer 5

tell him you were going through some emotional problems, and you would rather not discuss it.all you needed was a small break to be with yourself. but want him in your life again for his support and love.

Answer 6

let me say this: that's what my girlfriend (no longer my girlfriend) did to me and i think its stupid. she told me that it wasn't working out. Then, the next day she calls me TWICE and leaves a message saying that she wants to get back together. I didn't even call her back. You can call me a jerk but i was just too angry with the whole situation...the very next day! wat was she thinking? ok sorry. it seems like im still not over it. lol.

Answer 7

wow, that exact thing happened to me. me and my boyfriend were going out for a week or 2 and for some reason i felt like breaking up with him but once i did it i felt the same way as u do now i new i hurt him because he really like me and i really like him but i learned that if u do start feeling like u want to brake up with him right down a piece of paper why u are wanting to break up with him. then write down wat all u like about him. then u will normally want break up with him and then be like wat the heck did i just do.
talk to him and tell u how big of a mistake u meade tell him wat u told us. and maybe just maybe he will take u back.
hope that helped good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!