Well, I'm guessing everyones been in this situation or seen such in any location. GROUPS of people of the one gender. They have multiple friends with them and when you approach they always have the one to pull them away, without properly introducing yourself. Do they judge on looks or something else? Why does this occur?
2007-03-22 16:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by killswitch127 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listennnn... to ya boy. Girls in a group is a guys worst nightmare. If you are alone then don't target one girl, because chances are the others will feel rejected and attack you or just pull away causing the girl to pull away with her friends. Set your target on the group even if the other girls aren't your type (attractive). Strike up a conversation with the group and causally once their guard is down slowly lay down game on the others. Now when you have a wing-man (a friend) this is so much more easier. Of course you can't both be going for the same girl. A little bit of charm and confidence goes a long way here. So if sweet talking a girl isn't your cup of tea then don't attempt the group especially alone because you won't make it out alive.
2007-03-22 17:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls judge on looks until they can get a good understanding of a guy's personality. If the guy looks like a jerk, she's going to treat him as such. If he looks like a mama's boy [aka my bf haha!], she's going to treat him as such.
Try and see if you can pull a girl, not based on what she is wearing but what her eyes look like or how big her smile is...don't worry I'll explain why...
Girls have girlfriends so they can have a second opinion...if you say something nice like
"You have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen! What's your name?"
Chances are her girlfriends will think
"Oh he's not a jerk!"
and not pull her away from you while you are trying to introduce yourself
As ladies, we naturally pack...we can't help it...we need support, a second opinion and somebody to pass us toliet paper if our stall runs out...
Don't worry though...say something sincere about the girl you are trying to meet and chances are, her girlfriends will leave y'all alone
good luck!
2007-03-22 17:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by London Tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that when i'm hanging out with my friends, we would mercilessly tease the 1 who ne guy wanted 2 talk 2, lol. but the little time i get 2 spend w/ my friends, guy are the last hing on r minds; we r 2 busy hanging out and cultivating that sense of belonging. and, yes, looks r a huge factor, although it shouldn't b, lol. i would avoid the group situation, or do ur best to herd the person u want 2 talk 2 out of it, lol, if u know what i mean (just like step between her and the rest of the group, directly attention @ her). good luck!
2007-03-22 17:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 12:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by rosebeckjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That is exactly what they're doing. They are shallow and usually cause their friends a lot of problems.
The others usually don't keep them as friends for too long.
That's a relief.
2007-03-22 17:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋