or wait until after you are married?
2007-03-22 16:52:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no don't tell her, play out and see if she really love you. If you tell her she may fake it just for your money.
2007-03-22 16:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Brownie-Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are benifits and downsides, it just depends on the girl. Some girls are only into guys for money, so watch out. These should be fairly to spot. If I were you, and you really want to find that special someone, don't mention that your are rich for the first date or so. Then just have catch on when you take her out to really nice places and get her amaing gifts. Then she will think you are generous and thoughtful, which is better than being rich.
2007-03-22 16:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by DaClint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you sure at less not at first. But waiting till you are married may not be the right thing to do.
If your girl friend loves you for who you are then in the future at the right time, you will know when to tell her.
Let me ask you this has your girl friend been to your home yet?
Are meet your dad or mom? If not then you sure invite she and see what her take on this is.
2007-03-22 17:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Danny P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell her? If your personality is enough she won't care about your money anyway. If she is only interested in money would you really want to marry her?
You don't have to keep it a secret, but you can take things slowly and not make it obvious.... it might also make you seem desperate or bit of a showoff, y'know?
2007-03-22 16:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by donedeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them what you do for a living, but I don't recommend bragging how much money you're making or what's in your bank account. That's none of their business.
You want the women to like you for who you are, not your bank account. Some women may think you're arrogant too.
2007-03-22 16:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait until after marraige, but I wouldn't just blurt it out on the first date or anything either. If you tell her right away, then you'll always wonder if she's with you because she really cares about you, or if she just cares about the money.
2007-03-22 16:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me she'll get really pissed if you wait because then she'll think you are accusing her of being a possible golddigger.
I think you should just bring it up like you just won the lottery or someting...but TELL HER!!!
2007-03-22 16:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Toyre_826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her when you're engage or if she asks you. or she might find out herself, if you live the lifestyle. just saying your girlfriend might expect you to give her expensive gifts and go to nice restaurants and other stuff like that.
2007-03-22 16:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Muffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should until it gets very serious... cause you dont want her to think about money too much
2007-03-22 16:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.
well, how about you tell her if she asks... and if she doesn't, then you know she'll love you for you and not your money so you tell her when you love eachother.
or just never tell her!
2007-03-22 16:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋