what would you do if your live in boyfriend for 2 years placed an online personal ad. in it he said he lived alone when you know he lives with you and your child? is it cheating?
i'm sorry i've place this question before but i am so struggling with this!
2007-03-22 16:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by mariah c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it is very obvious to anyone..of course he is trying to CHEAT.. can you think of any other reason?? what would be on your mind if " YOU " placed information on a web site?? i would think cheating, so it must mean he is looking.. either fix the problem or just be ready to say adios amigo..
2007-03-22 16:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you place an add, you have to be honest about the whole thing.
You don't and your easily court out, then it's why did they bother.
Read mine and you'll get limps, bumps and warts, the whole lot, as there is no reason to lie.
Anonymity on emails means you never need worry, so they should be truthful.
Okay there are many men and woman as well that lie about being single when there in a relationship.
But get it right, they are the same type of people that when they go out take off rings and always say there single or separated anyway, TRUE?
2007-03-22 17:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by superalymac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single and have a profile up and I have not enjoyed it one bit. Too many games where a guy is looking to hook up even when they are married or have a girl friend. Makes me sick. I can't tell anymore who are sincere and who are not.
I would be pissed if I were you. Come on now, he has no business putting a profile up if he is living with you. Why have you not confronted him on this and why is he still living with you. He will only give you a lame excuse. Why not put a really nice one of you up. You don't even have to be a paid member. He also may want you to find out about this and to get you jealous. I have no clue cause you have not said much about your situation. I wish you good luck on this. I for one, would not stand for it. Maybe that is why I am still single. I would rather be alone than deal with your situation.
2007-03-22 17:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the date the profile was created. It could be years back. If it is, the guy is probably innocent. Also check for when it was last updated, to see if he's maintaining the "alone" and "looking" thing.
If it's a new profile, talk to him. Find a solution before any drastic action. Acting spontaniously can lead to huge mistakes when not thought out or researched correctly.
Discussion and Talking is key to a solution.
2007-03-23 05:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would kick him out. there are many men on those sights looking for extras..i would not trust him as far as i could throw him, whatever excuses he tries...it might seem like the end of the world but 2 years is not a long time, move on and get someone who treats you with respect.
2007-03-22 22:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by slsvenus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i mean dont assume things. talk it out with him. Maybe this was a while ago...if not: dont overreact. Fix the problem. Do it for you child. Its very hard growing up without a father...I would know. I hope everthing turns out okay!
2007-03-22 16:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not cheating actually, it's a lack of update and he needs to update that thing to taken and lookin for friends only.
2007-03-22 16:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Salima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place your own ad,hun...
2007-03-22 16:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do really need to ask.
2007-03-22 17:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by mescalin57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋