saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he's a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care?
I don't understand why I still can't get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart?
2007-03-22 16:40:34 · 15 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His staus on facebook says that he's single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he's NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music cuz we only dated for a month and I know that he doesn't listen to persian music normally. I am Persian, do u think he was thinking of me?
2007-03-22 16:41:49 · update #1
you must realize that it doesn't matter if this is his girl friend or a friend...you are not with him. Stop holding onto the past and move forward with your life. You are young, we get over this stuff very quickly when we are young. As long as you hold onto the past, you can have no future. Good luck
2007-03-22 16:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew myself although I gave myself to this guy and I feel so confused and hurt each time I see that he is seeing someone. We are both on myspace and it seems every other month he changes his proflie to being in a relationship to being single again and this seems to only last a month each time and it seems he contacts me every single time he goes to single again. But I put a stop to seeing him last December cause I no longer want to be just a booty call to him. Each time I thought maybe he changed this time and wants a relationship with me and each time I felt so damn used. I just deleted him from my friends list today.
It will take time to get over something like this. I've know this guy for 4 years and look at me. I was such a fool to let this stuff go on for so long.
What I have done in the past is think of negative and bad stuff about him until you dislike him and then you can move on.
I am a bit surprised this bothers you so much for only dated a month and not gave yourself to him. I did and look how long its taking me. You should be fine, just do other stuff. Good Luck.
2007-03-22 16:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW you sound like you are dealing with a lot of unresolved issues with this guy. Why are you on here asking us these things? you should be asking him. you are obviously jealous and he already knows that I am sure. So you might as well call him and talk to him (nicely). I bet the girl was just a friend. The persian music - is she persian? If not then he was definitely thinking of you. How cute. You are probably attaced to him because he was your first boyfriend. A lot of girls are like that. It just takes some time to get over him. You guys should talk.
2007-03-22 16:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... the girl might just be a friend.
why don't you ask him, as a friend, if he's hooked up since you guys broke up?
you probably "hold that soft spot" because he carries so many firsts with you... he will always be remembered.
but, if you want to get over him, the only advice i can give you that will work for sure, is time.
i know, it sucks. but it's true.
i've felt that way too and until i notice someone else, i usually feel that way.
don't worry.
it will work out for the best :-)
2007-03-22 16:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's your first bf and you are still trying to let it go...
Since he's a player, be glad that your relationship only lasted for 1 mth. Just keep telling yourself that he's not the one for you and he's not worth it because he gave a lousy excuse when he broke up with you. We all have our own things to do and you don't just break up with someone simply because you're busy.
Go out and make more friends. He's your first love for a reason. Find someone who will be your last. :)
2007-03-22 16:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "bond" that you feel is that he was your "first". Because you are saving yourself for marriage means that you put a lot of value and emotion into a kiss. If he has moved on, then so should you. That is as we adults (old people) say puppy love and it will fade. Think about it, if you were saving yourself for marriage and you didn't promise that guy your "LOVE" then he wasn't the guy for you anyway....
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2016-10-01 08:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the main reason is in the very first part of your question : He was your first boyfriend! It will bother you for a while but you will eventually have someone in your life and the feelings you feel for him will dwindle down and it will be much better and more meaningful.
2007-03-22 16:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt matter whether he listens to persian music or not the fact he hasnt come to u and and asked u out again is what matters
2007-03-22 16:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you want what you can't have. Now that someone else has him..you want him back. Face it he was no prize if he's not willing to wait for you. You deserve better. He dumped you casue you wouldn't put out. Don't think that he's busy...thats a lie.
2007-03-22 16:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋