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I have liked the same boy for about 3 weeks now. In class i always look over at him and he is looking at me so i smile and he smiles back. In class he always comes over to me and asks me for help. Also he just comes and sits by me randomly but we dont really talk. We have conversations but they normally dont last very long because we have a very strict teacher. I tried to give him a hint by asking him for his phone and entering my number in it but he hasent said anything to me about it or called me or anything so i dont think he noticed or he just ignored it. When he is talking to his friends he is always looking at me and i am looking back. But he told one of my friends that he doesnt want a girlfriend right now. I think he was lying but either way im still just waiting for him to ask me on a date. What should i do to give him more hints that i like him? Please be descriptive. Ive tried everything that i already know so i need some new ideas. Thanks.

2007-03-22 16:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by Abercrombie Queen 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

well... he might have not noticed the phone thing.

why don't you get his number?
or next time you see him... ask him if he noticed that you put your number on his phone. if he says yes, ask him why he never called in a joking way.
if he says no, you should tell him that he should call you.

if you think that's too forward... ummm... you can always strike up a conversation with him and say you're looking forward to watching some movie and then ask him if he's doing something on the weekend. if not, ask him if he wants to do watch that movie with you.

other than that... i'm out of ideas.
lol.

good luck :-)

2007-03-22 16:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well, maybe he likes you and he doesn't want to say anything now because he doesn't want a girlfriend right know. But to me It seems like he likes you, and he just probably needs little more time to his self to decide if he wants another relationship. So, if I was you I would just give him some space and let him come to you, when the time is right he will probably start to talk to you more. Just be patient and don't try to rush him, because if you do, you might just push him away from you. I'm not saying not to talk to him, just don't press the issue about going out with him. or having a relationship with him. He could just be getting out of another relationship, and needs this time to gather his taughts. So just be patient and let things just flow together. I also want to say that he does notice you, and he probably right now just need a friend to talk too. So just be his friend, and then maybe the friendship will grow into a relationship. Always remember never let a guy see you so desperate, most guys don't like that. OOh don't keep giving hints he already knows that you like him.

2007-03-22 16:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by ShoryT 1 · 0 0

Yes, he is dropping hints. Small ones, but hints nevertheless. Try asking him during break what he's doing on the weekend. If he's going to a party or something, then shoot back an "I'll see you there then!". If he says nothing, then say "Wanna hit the mall, or a movie or something?".
In this day and age it doesn't matter if the girl asks a guy out.

Happened to me, and it turned into a fairly decent relationship. I wouldn't have had the nuts to ask her out at the time.
Good luck!

2007-03-22 16:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your right, it does sound like he likes you! However, when guys tell their friends they don't want a gf right now, it is usually true. Maybe he is just looking for a hookup right now. Guys can be soo confusing!! What you could always do, is invite him to a group gathering on the weekend and see what happens form there. That what I always did, and usually you found out by the end of the night whether the guy was into you or not. Hope this helps! Take care

2007-03-22 16:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by lillitaamojavy 1 · 0 0

ive had the same problem befor. one thing i did was drag a friend and sit across from him at lunch. wait a few seconds for him to say something if he doesnt then say 'hey' 'whats up' dont make a big deal that your sitting by him or talking outside of class. dont leave room for a long/awkward pause. hand him your number on a slip of paper and casually say 'maybe you can call me and we can get together outside of school or whatever. to avoid possible public humiliation ask him while leaving class. then before he has a chance to answer or say anything back you say see you tomorrow or dont say anything but walk away.then hee will most likely call you with an answer. lotsoflove lori

2007-03-22 16:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you have been dropping hints and you really do think this guy likes you , then you can only do one thing. Confront him about, ask him if he's lieing to his friends but you think he really does like you then you have to know for sure. Because you don't want to look confused, dropping hints to a guy you're not even sure likes you , do you ?

2007-03-22 16:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Wowza Emily 2 · 0 0

ask him out to dinner or the movies or the mall or something like that... it takes a lot of confidence to do... but u should get mad respect from other people...if ur walking when ur out, a lot of the time a guy would look down because he is nervous... if he is nervous the chances are that he likes u

2007-03-22 16:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by coreyr107000 2 · 0 0

Get to know him as a good friend for now....if that doesn't work, give him a few compliments. Don't come on too strong until it is official that he likes you...the STILL don't come on too strong...act like yourself. Treat him as a friend. Ya never know....=)

2007-03-22 16:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's probably shy so since ur number is in his phone maybe ask him to call you and tell him he's already got ur number

2007-03-22 16:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by jenlyn528 1 · 0 0

I think he likes you but is just shy. perhaps you should ask him to a dance or out. it will help him beucas it doesn't seem like he will take hte first step..

2007-03-22 16:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0 0

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