Alright, so I'm 15 and in high school. Here's the deal, my girlfriend decided to break up with me. Word got around to me before she actually did it. So according to my 'intel' she was going to do it at school on monday, the day i found out was friday.
So to lighten up my mood my friends showed me a wild night on Saturday. We ended up at a teen dance downtown. I met someone, and spent the majority of the night dancing and flirting with her. After it was over, one of my friends was throwing up, so everyone decided to take him home and then head over to another friends house. I decided to go with this new girl and her friends. We hooked up and I spent the night with her at her friends house (parents were gone for the weekend). Turns out that we have much more in common then a like for each other's lips, and we hung out the following day. Then comes the dreaded Monday, and guess what? No break up. I'm still with her, yet Have plans with the new girl this week. What now?
2007-03-22 16:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought the relationship was over, and I want to stay with my gf, but this new girl is tempting....
2007-03-22 16:25:32 · update #1
you need to tell your girl the truth b4 she finds out from someone else and if she decides to giv you a second chance dont listen to the he said she said bullsh*t.....but honestly you dont deserve her to do that to her
2007-03-22 16:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You do have a predicament. You didn't say though why you want to stay with the girlfriend. It sounds like you might have a real good "connection" with the new girl. Did the girlfriend not break-up because she changed her mind or did she chicken out? Honestly, you seem to be a very smart and together 15 year old guy. Understand that you will have lots of relationships and do a ton of learning from all of them. Don't limit yourself. And no, I don't think that you were wrong for "hooking up" with the new girl. Kind of have to expect that this would happen in this case - right?
2007-03-22 23:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listennnn..... to ya boy. Which girl do you want? If you want your girlfriend then break things off with the new chick and tell your girl what happen (sounds crazy but if you want it to last you will do it). If you like the new chick then dump your girl (sounds kind of harsh by why punish yourself). You did cheat on your girl, and it is your fault but don't dwell on that. Just figure out who you want. Your in High School this is how dating is and goes. Juat decide who you want and move on. Your girl will be fine if you choose to leave her. But make sure you think about it before you make a move. Maybe a list of pros and cons for both girls.
2007-03-23 00:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I believe its your fault you cheated. Your girlfriend never actually said anything to you personally, so to listen to anyone else was your own fault. First of all if your girlfriend really did say she was going to break up with you and never did, then its ridiculous to spare her feelings, she confused and doesnt know what she wants, so you shouldnt be with her. But if she didnt really say it, then you have a problem, you should probably stay with her and put it all (including the new girl) behind you.
Just find out if the "rumor" had merit or not.
And follow what feels right.
2007-03-22 23:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by PricelessEcho34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. If you still want to be with your girlfriend than go for it. Forget the new girl and don't make your life more complicated.
2007-03-22 23:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by mandm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about witch one you like spending time with more...if I were you girlfriend, I would much rather be broken up with you than you be cheating on me. You just have to choose one or the other.
2007-03-22 23:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by IM me for more advice!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋