Help me please! What do I need to do?

Question

This question is not as long as it seems, I just really need advice. It will seem long because there is a letter on the end, which will be explained.

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say this message that's below to her, but I couldn't remember. All my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said ok, I get the point, you don't

have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around. Then I left. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change. This is what I was going to say to her, but now I'll just write it to her and try to forget her.

Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I

had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you. If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END) Her 17th b-day is in one week. I'm 17 as well. And I swear I really do love her, I just know I can't tell her. But it feels like I might as well since she's gone anyway.

Answer 1

You are right ,,,, It's too long ,,,, You have to wake up and smell the coffee and read the writing on the wall ,,,, It's more than obvious that she wants nothing to do with you what so ever ,,,, You aren't going to change that no matter what you say either to her face or in a message and were I you I wouldn't bother sending her any more ,,,, She might feel that you are pressuring her and making a pest of yourself ,,,, Time to move on and leave her to herself ,,,, If she was interested in you at all then she would be allot more responsive to you ,,,, Obviously she's not so it's time to leave it alone ,,,, You never know ,,,, If she got irritated with your advances enough she just might turn you in as a stalker or something ,,,, Give it up and clear your mind of her ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so to speak so maybe it's time for you to go fishing ,,,, Find some one else that's fun and exciting to be with ,,,, They are out there all you have to do is just find one ,,,, Probably most of them come trouble and problem free too ,,,,

Answer 2

You need to back off right now, you have let her know you like her over and over that you arent interested, and she just ignores you. You're turning into a stalker, and are probably scaring her. Dont buy her a birthday gift, dont even talk to her anymore unless she talks to you first. Back off right now.

Answer 3

You need to stop killing yourself. when a women deny her love to a guy that means go get lost.
try to make your schedule busy, play sport, read a books, go to the movies stop torturing yourself and it will came to you if it's for you.
my prayer to you. go get yourself a book and new friends until your girl start wondering about then showed up.
good luck