My now girlfreind is living with me in another state-She is still married but has a divorce that her husband won't sign papers.She has 3 kids with him, now after 2months with me she wants to go back to her state so she could get custody of her kids-still she is saying that she will come back when she gets them-should i just let her go and move on or should i wait for her witch could take forever for the custody i'm single with no kids and i do love her i don't know what to do
2007-03-22 16:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by jay p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her get her kids and decide what she wants to do from there. It's not fair of you to hold on to her when she has so much going on. If she truly loves you she'll try and make it work but sometimes I have to admit love fails and people make mistakes. But sometimes you have to let her make her own mistakes.
2007-03-22 16:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Wowza Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go back with her? Offer her support and be there for her when she is getting custody of her kids.
If she said she will be back after getting her kids, she will. Come on, have some trust in her! my advice would be to wait for her...
2007-03-22 16:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her to get her kids. Kids are the most important things in a parents life...or thats how its suppossed to be. Be there for her and take her kids as your own...only if thats what you want.
2007-03-22 16:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u go with her? if not let her go, and get her kids. just tell her to keep in contact with her. it could also be a set up for her also. sit down and talk to her, and let her know how u feel about it. and take it from there. good luck.
2007-03-22 16:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!! Don't date married women...find someone single and less complicated...they're out there. You will be way more happy without all the strings attached and don't live with them either. What's with people? Can't we just be happy with healthy relationships? Date, then get married, then live together...thats the way it should be.
2007-03-22 16:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋