Ok...so me and this one guy have been talking for a minute. I really like him a lot and I think he likes me too. How do I get him to tell me how he feels about me? I have tried by writing him and telling him that he needs to tell me what kind of level we are on and how is he feeling and what kind of level he would like us to be on . Stuff like that.
2007-03-22 16:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by babigyrl0408 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His response to my letter was that he realizes that I'm one of the realest females he met and he realizes I've always been there for him. He did say that he is shy. but he shows affection in front of his friends and in public.
2007-03-22 16:09:51 · update #1
You need to just come right out and tell him you like him. If he doesn't respond directly back or kind or bounces around his answer he's probably not feeling the same way but doesnt want to hurt you or whatever. Some guys just like the attention from a girl who likes them and so they keep it going when they never have the same feelings. Just be honest with him and he should be honest with you. If he's not than it's not mutual
2007-03-22 16:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine writing that sort of letter to a guy would feel really high pressure, and he probably thinks you're a bit weird. Just relax... and let things happen, or not happen. It may be old fashioned but I still think guys like a bit of a chase, they dont value anything, women included, that comes too easy.
2007-03-22 23:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your additional info, it appears that he is avoiding any direct comments pertaining to his feelings regarding a relationship with you. I would think that if he was feeling the same way he would disclose that information to you. Best of luck!
2007-03-22 23:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really should not have written a letter to him. i recommend keeping it slow and make yourself look cute so you can impress that special someone. Crack a joke, trust me it WORKS! YOU CAN DO IT!!!
2007-03-22 23:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by japanesegolfgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one of your friends better off a boy that knows him and tell him to ask him what he thinks about you without saying you asked him to XP
2007-03-22 23:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by moondoggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 23:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him, and he'll tell you back if he likes you.
2007-03-22 23:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go straighforward
2007-03-22 23:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nohaymanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋