okay there is this guy that i like....for a while he was flirting with me and making it seem like he likes me...and then this past week he hasn't been talking to me and its driving me crazy!!! i don't know what's going on....has anyone else have this happen to them before?? can you please tell me what's happening...he only looks at me and smiles know...but i really like him....
2007-03-22 15:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by rat_leg danny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 18...just for those wondering how old he is...
2007-03-22 15:54:52 · update #1
Yes, this is a very common situation and a very confusing and frustrating one. My guess is that he is testing you, or playing games to drive you crazy, or maybe he is just a big flirt and likes confusing people... but whatever his reason, the fact is that you really like him.
So try to find ways to approach him so that you can start up a conversation and see whats up. Be casual about it, make him work some to be friends with you. Good luck.
2007-03-22 15:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he's waiting for you to make a move, or he's playing "hard to get", or he could be busy with other things. I got money on the fact that he's waiting for you to make a move since you said he's been flirting with you... how have you responded to his moves? Were interested or did you blow him off? If you accepted his advances and he's still acting this way then keep in mind, he could be really busy and don't take it personal.
2007-03-22 15:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem and i know exactly how to handle it he stopped because if you didn't obviously flirt back he thins your not interested and stop so maybe its just about time 4 you to make a move
2007-03-22 15:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by briana.wruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. that's the males bait and line tactic.
1) get the girl interested.
2) back off a bit to make sure they like you
3) if they want you bad enough they'll say so.
4) go out.
2007-03-22 15:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation and i know how annoying and confusing it can be. if i were you i would ignore him for as long as you can (play hard to get) if you find he's paying you more attention then you know that he is interested in you
2007-03-23 09:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lobster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, that happened 2 me. turns out he thought i didn't like him and tried 2 move on. but i asked him out cuz i drove myself CRAZY. it worked out well, but that was luck. i'd suggest doing ur best 2 start conversations, ect. good luck!
2007-03-22 15:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you strike up a conversation with him and do a little flirting and see where it goes from there.
2007-03-22 15:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be waiting for you to make a move. Go on, girl.
2007-03-22 15:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have some drama goin on, or he might have met some1 else...hard 2 tell...could b playin hard 2 get also or seein if u reciprocate his interest...good luck!! :o)
2007-03-22 15:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start talking to him again, you know, get things back to flowing! =]
2007-03-22 15:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋