Me and my ex were together for four months. We were each others first loves. He went on vacation for two weeks and when he came back he told me half of him still loves me but half just wanted to be friends. So I said fine, I just want him to be happy, so we broke up. Even though he said we would be friends he no longer talks or looks at me. It's been two months since we broke up now. We have mutual friends and a class together. It's hard because I will be standing right next to him and it's like I don't exsist. I use to try and talk to him, not about anything big, just nice small talk, but he seemed annoyed that I was doing so. I use to wave, say hello, but nothing. Now I've just started ignoring him back, he obviously wants nothing to do with me but are things always going to be like this?
2007-03-22 15:38:38 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes 'cause he's still immature.
2007-03-22 15:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be. I know it really sucks. Me and my ex boyfriend didnt talk at all for 3 weeks, but then i finally wrote him a letter saying i didnt want it to be like that, i still wanted him to be in my life, but just as a friend [ even though i still had & still do have feelings for him ] and we started talking a few days after that. Even though i still have feelings for him, it doesnt hurt me to talk to him just as a friend, i just want him to be happy and i'm ready to move on from him. If you have tried talking to him and nothing works, maybe it will be like that. Im sorry that he's being a jerk about it though =/
2007-03-22 22:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by one_thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this behavior is very strange considering his reasons for break up...could he be gay? Seriously, his dis interest makes me think he has other things on his mind and there is no mention of another women. If you had an affair with his best friend I'd understand the behavior but something is going on here and he didn't want you to find it out.
2007-03-22 22:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you comminucation must not be that good. he probably found someone in those two weeks
even when i was on vacation, i would still talk to friends and same with them
2007-03-22 22:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋