Help!I have this problem where i like this guy and i don't no if he likes me and i'm starting to give up on him since nothing is happening. I don't know what to do and i really like the guy and it seems like he likes me too but he doesn't do anything. And i'm really tired of trying to get him to like me because our friendship isn't going so well either. We hardly speak and i hardly see him cuz i only get to see him once a week. Now i think he doesn't like me anymore and i don't know what to do.
2007-03-22 15:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two options, move on... or confront him about your feelings. Ask him out and/or tell him how you feel. Take the initiative. Worst case scenario is that you two drift apart and become more distant, which is exactly what will happen anyway if you don't take the first step.
2007-03-22 15:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you won't know for sure what's going on unless you talk to him. You need to be brave and have a talk with him. Find out what he thinks of you and if there's a possibility of the two of you dating. You could suggest the two of you hanging out next weekend and see what he says. If he jumps at it, you know he likes you.
Also throw in there that you'd like to be friends either way. Tell him you're getting sketchy signals and you're really confused but that you don't want to assume anything.
2007-03-22 22:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up on the guy because i did that once and finally when i moved on i found the perfect guy and now he's all into me. i'm happy now with the new guy and am soooo happy that i decided to move on. you'll find that you're wasting your time waiting for this guy. he'll only want you once he can't have you and even then it's only a mind game that he's playing. he like the attention but not nessecarily you!!!
2007-03-30 22:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give up, if u only see him once a week as is how do u think it's gonna be when ur dating? even if u did get a relationship started it would end quickly b/c of the lack of time u would have w/ him and vice-versa
2007-03-30 02:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume he's shy. Invite to lunch or some neutral event. Talk to him. Many, many guys can't hold up their end of a conversation. If that doesn't work, stop it cold. Remain friendly and aloof. If he misses you, he'll let you know. If he doesn't, then that's the fates.
2007-03-30 15:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him and you are really friends friends don't quit on each other. maybe he has something going on in his life that has nothing to do with you or how he feels about you, you know something he has no control over. try to relax i know it is easier said than done but if you give him the ax just remember you can't take it back.smile.
2007-03-22 22:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by gone fishing! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get your answer you are going to just be straight forward with him. you are going to have to come straight out and tell him your true feelings before you don't talk anymore. Guys are not very good with expressing there feelings but if you open up they will usually tell you their true feelings also.
2007-03-30 20:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by ann p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if he liked you, he would pursue you. Wait for another time/person who takes on interest in you and you will not have to ask this.
2007-03-22 22:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up. jump on that big fat donkey dick and ride the hell out of it. get it while you can *****.
2007-03-30 12:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Shanana Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is only your desicion....{sorry i don't know how to spell that! lol} if you feel like you should...then you should...but if you really like him then get to know him better!
2007-03-22 22:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋