Please help me, i am really sad, i get really sad that my BF chats to some other girls, maybe he is not cheating but why do i feel so so so bad and depressed. Since he knows this, he shows offline all the time while talking to them.
2007-03-22 15:12:17 · 7 answers · asked by Rosita 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Thank you everybody, yes he is serious about us. But i can't stop being so insecure :(
2007-03-22 15:38:24 · update #1
dont worry, it is highly unlikely that he's cheating on you, if he's serious about you... It is ok for men to talk to other women.....
If he's showing offline everytime he talks to them, maybe he's afraid that you'll be horrible to him... Please try to trust him. I know its hard, because all women have that fear... I flipped out when I saw my ex boyfriend hug another girl, even though she'd been his friend for ages, and she was like a little sister to him.
God Bless.
2007-03-22 15:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by joeyfarlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a trust issue. people are progremmed to believe that the partner will cheat on them. you need to be able to trust him. if you do not trust him, then why are you with him.
people will always socalize. and flirting and cheating are 2 very different things.
2007-03-22 22:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called low self-steem. Read some books about it, and realize your own worth. Things will get better for you.
2007-03-22 22:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you arent sure of your own appeal.....listen...it is u that he has chosen to date not them! so just think about that statement whenever he is chatting with these other girls who i assume are just gal pals
2007-03-22 22:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The genocide, poverty and death in the world is all inferior to your teenage angst.
2007-03-22 22:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Be glad you're not married to him.
2007-03-22 22:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh...to be a paranoid teenager again...
2007-03-22 22:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋