Well,me and my BF were really tight, untill he started to think he was cool,thats when it started.I told him I didnt want him to tact like that because it was getting anoying and disrespectful.But then he said, "Well If you cant exept who I am then were done." But later I told him I didnt mean it that way,but then he told me he already hooked uup with a girl he liked before me.I was really angry,but I still love him, and I pretend to be happy. The worst part is the girl he hooked up with is my best friend. SOS,please help!
2007-03-22 15:01:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stick his head in the toilet , crap , then flush.............amazing.
2007-03-22 15:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm she is not your best friend. That is totally not acceptable. I would be irrate!!! I would be raising some hell between her and your friendship. I have never ever done that to a friend. The last friend that did that to me, well, lets just say I haven't spoken to her since 1991.
As for your boyfriend I hope he realizes that he screwed up and tries to win you back. I would give him a second chance (only one time though) because I believe everyone deserves a second chance. We all make mistakes.
I know how hard it is to look at your boyfriend and see him with another girl. I know all you want to do is cry and scream and get him back. But sometimes crap like this happens for a reason. Just try and be strong and go with the flow. Maybe he will come around again in a couple of days. But if he is acting disrespectful to you then you might be better off. In the end it will just lower your self esteem.
Good luck kiddo! I hope your best friends wises up and your boyfriend realizes he is being stupid.
2007-03-22 15:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by JennTarbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation was almost like mine. It happened many years ago though. The best thing to do is dis-own her and him. Find someone else. Go on dates until it happens. You will be over him and her soon if you feel confident that there is someone else for you and you may find someone better than him and her. Just think you can and you will. I'm available, want to surf the Internet with a cool dude?
2007-03-22 15:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably hooked up with your best friend on purpose. If he really loves you, he won't do such childish thing and he won't tell you off when you try to advise him to be a better person.
I think you are smart and deserve a more understanding guy. Forget him. Get on with your life. There is a better guy waiting for you somewhere out there who deserve your attention and love.
2007-03-22 15:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Coco2say 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was a jerk from the start. Comments like that don't end REAL relationships. Cut ties with him and your so-called "best friend" and go get new friends.
Just take this as a lesson in judging peoples character, move on, and do better next time!
2007-03-22 15:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by mattorodinku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently he is not returning the "love" thing if he already hooked up with another chick. Your friend obviously dosen't value your friendship either. Ditch them both you don't need them! Treat yourself to a movie with new friends or a shopping spree!
2007-03-22 15:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by DREDAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she is NOT your best friend if she hooked up with your boyfriend.
No offense he sounds like he has turned into a tosser! Do your best to get over him ,as you deserve a lot better than him!
2007-03-22 15:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real jerk, I would just drop him but if you want to know what to do then ask your best friend or another friend that you can trust. Chances are he may have tried to purposly give you a reason to ask for a breakup.
2007-03-22 15:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by S A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,,,,the best thing I can say to you is to sit back and see what happens. I don't think it will last very long between them and you can get him back possibly. But then why bother??? Find someone else and don't make that same mistake again....
2007-03-22 15:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question that he was "tight" with you if he just went off with your best friend. Just let him know what you are feeling and try to work things out. Best of luck!
2007-03-22 15:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Christian B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just get over him and move on because a who thinks hes all that he's not worth it. i mean he has and he's not worried about u, i would say see yeah later
2007-03-22 15:09:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋