well my brother just recently called me today and crying which he never does and freaked me out because he was crying. I asked him what's wrong and he didn't want to tell me so then i finally had to guess and he said he thinks he bisexual. And he was crying because he thought i was going to see him differently or stop talking to him! I immedeately told him to not worry about it and i was upset that he saw me as this horrible monster who would get mad at him and stop talking to him! I told him that was his own choice and life style and i was nobody to judge him! he told me that he had found out or was thinking about it like about a year ago and barely had the guts to tell me right now. O fcourse i love my brother and this is not going to change the way i see him he is still going to have my respect and love as a sister! i just wanted to know if any of you have gone thru the same thing?
2007-03-22 14:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by *Loving my two boys* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Exploration is part of life, recently my daughter asked me if I would be OK if she was gay, I told her so what! She will always be my daughter and I would always give my life to save hers. Please let your brother know that you love him no matter what!! Him not telling you before is called insecurity, his insecurity, he needs to know, not your hurt and anger, but your love. But do let him know that he has no need to worry about your reaction because your love will shine through all. I am sure ther is some kind of group you can help him find so he can have more people of like mind to discuss his thoughts and emotions with.
2007-03-30 03:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by mklare1998 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I havent, I had a cousin come out of the closet but he moved across the country right after he told us. Honestly though, you're brother sounds ashamed... the best thing you can do is be supportive because it took a lot of guts to confront you with this. Whatever you do, just dont make him feel anymore uncomforable than he is.
2007-03-30 11:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a best friend who told me he was bisexual and it was the best thing that could've happened ... we both checked out guy's bums and chat amongst ourselves if he was hot or not ... we would talk about ways to 'impress a man' ... I think a bisexual man, even a gay guy are the best friend's a woman can have.
2007-03-28 22:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty_Kat119 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never experienced anything like this, but I think it is wonderful that you are being supportive of your brother, it is exactly what he needs at this time in his life. I am sure he is confused and needs support from someone who loves him.
2007-03-22 15:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless you Hun.....You are a true and wonderful sister...Treat him no different then you have in the past...My sister just told me she may be gay....Rock on..that's is great....why would I care as long as you are alive and here and as beautiful as ever...God Bless you heart for keeping it real....we need more people like this in our world today...
2007-03-29 13:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gone through this but it is true family bonding that is keeping you so close with your brother! great job! really impressed that ur not seeing him differently, that is what its all about
2007-03-28 21:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by jsf19872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋