well i like him, he knows. and ive heard that he likes me. but when ever i see him theres always a girl flirting with him and it seems as though he does an equal amount of flirting.
some bonus info
-i went out with his cousin
-he is one year older than me
-and MY best friend just dumped HIS best friend
so my question is,
should i be over him, cuz its really hard not to think about him.
its not like i go around writing "I HEART JEFFERY" everywhere, its just like i changed my password to lovejeffery
obsessive???
2007-03-22 14:56:29 · 13 answers · asked by megan'sthename 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU KNOW WHAT, YALL CAN JUST FORGET I ASKED THIS QUESTION. I JUST FOUND OUT THAT HES INTERESTED IN MY BEST FRIEND JORDAN. THE ONE THAT DUMPED HIS BEST FRIEND!
2007-03-22 15:10:00 · update #1
Yikes... sorry miss
Although I will still put in some input. Kind of wierd that a rumor spread around saying that he liked you. If you got the impression that he likes your best friend, I would get it straight from him or a credible source. Gossip has a way to be manipulated and change over a small - very small - period of time. Just make sure you know what to believe and what not to. It's really true that sometimes you must negate effective hearing when the source seems to be using fallacy reasoning.
However, don't worry about it. I tell people this often but, there are 6+ billion people in this Earth and one of them is bound to love you. Humans embrace the love they recieve and I'm sure they won't turn down your love if you offer it. So keep seeking and persevere; best things in life are free but doesn't necessarily mean they come quick either.
Good Luck!
2007-03-22 17:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the same situation happened to me and some people are different but I had a girl that really liked me and I wasn't interested in her at all, but she would see me flirt and hang out with others and I just acted if I wasn't interested because I am too nice to tell her to go away. Just spend more time with him and see if he changes towards you. I was friends with the girl until she just got way too flirty and embarrassing. Maybe if that is the case it may be that way too. Talk to him, make it seem that you really like him. Talk about something really KoRny like the weather make it obvious that you just want to talk to him.
2007-03-22 15:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by caloman88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see, he's flirting with other girls, he says he is intrested in your best friend, and he still is giving the idea that he likes you? sounds like he is a player. Keep hope that he might not be that bad and that he likes you for a while, but if he and Jordan start going out, get over him.
2007-03-22 15:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two friends?
I think if you try becoming his friend first, you may have a better chance becoming more than friends in the future. Especially since you have an indirect history with eachother.
The most you can do in any situation with someone you like, is show them you're interested. Make them laugh, invite them out with a group of your friends, and make sure they have an awesome time.
Instead of making your boyfriend RIGHT NOW, focus on making him like you for you.
2007-03-22 15:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My rule--which I pressure commonly everytime my peers pore themselves over magazines of lovely folks---is that this: "He's no longer sizzling till he is 21, he is adorable. But even then, he is nonetheless adorable." I uncover adorable a greater time period style a male's good looks, I do not know why. A boy with a few muscle like abs is fine, however an excessive amount of muscle is solely...God. I do not wish him to wreck me in part whilst he hugs me!
2016-09-05 12:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by wojtowicz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should talk to Jeffery. If he really likes you then he would talk to you back, but there's no other way of communicating with him... Except if you take your friend and ask him through your friend... But, that will be kinda embarrassing... One tip though... don't ask HIM out. If he really likes you, try to make him jealous... He will ask YOU out then. Good Luck and best wishes! Peace and Love...
2007-03-22 15:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. Read a book, get a job, volunteer someplace, visit your granny. Enjoy your youth and don't worry about little boys.
2007-03-22 15:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you
same thing with me
i like this guy
and sometimes when i look at him he flirting wit other girls
i went out wit him b4 but i still like him
i always c him every where
so i think you still like him
just like ME
2007-03-22 15:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Dianaaaaa♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does his last name begin with a B? LOl just curious! anyways, that sounds really complicated. I say leave it alone and move on. LoL.
2007-03-22 15:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by S4tisf4ctionz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually you don't date the cousins' ex under any circumstances, but if she is cool with it and this guy shares the same feelings, go for it!
2007-03-22 14:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋